About this episode

The Minimalists discuss the challenges of minimalism with behavior expert Dr. John Demartini, including family criticism and the impact of consumption on identity.

The Minimalists speak with behavior expert Dr. John Demartini about loved ones who criticize your minimalist lifestyle, ways to reconcile the tension between simplicity and luxury goods, how our consumption patterns shape our identities, whether good and evil exist, and much more. Discussed in this episode: What is meant by Charles Bukowski's assertion that we are reduced to ashes by our purpose and desire? (1:23) How can I handle family members who criticize my minimalist lifestyle? (3:44) Right Here, Right Now: Very, Very Simple is now available in print. (26:26) Listener Tip: What is the relationship between our consumption patterns and our identities? (26:58) Have a question for the show? Call 406-219-7839 or email a voice memo to podcast@themins.com. Listen to the full Maximal episode on Patreon: patreon.com/theminimalists Detailed show notes: minimalists.com/podcast

People in this episode

Hosts: Joshua Fields Millburn, Ryan Nicodemus, T.K. Coleman

Guest: Dr. John Demartini

Topics covered

• minimalism
• family criticism
• consumption patterns
• identity
• simplicity vs luxury
• philosophy

Keywords

• minimalism
• criticism
• luxury goods
• consumption
• identity
• philosophy
• Charles Bukowski

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Right Here, Right Now: Very, Very Simple

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