침묵의 방 | The Room Nobody Talks About: On Sex, Shame and Christian Marriages — The One with Pastor Temi Areo | Episode 3 (2026)

침묵의 방 | The Room Nobody Talks About: On Sex, Shame and Christian Marriages — The One with Pastor Temi Areo | Episode 3 (2026)

June 16, 2026 · 1h 51m · Season 9 · Episode 3

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This episode explores the often-ignored aspects of intimacy and communication in Christian marriages with Pastor Temi Areo.

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: 침묵의 방 | The Room Nobody Talks About: On Sex, Shame and Christian Marriages — The One with Pastor Temi Areo | Episode 3 (2026)  There is a room in most marriages that nobody talks about. Not the kitchen where the arguments happen. Not the living room where everything looks fine for visitors. The bedroom. The one that started full of something and somewhere along the line went quiet. No dramatic moment. Nobody planned it. It just happened. This episode I walked into that room with Pastor Temi Areo, co-lead pastor of Citizens of Light Church in Lagos, prophet, teacher, founder of a mentoring school, and author of several books including her newest, Undressing Sex. We did not tiptoe. The church has tiptoed for long enough. Here is what we get into: The three trouble spots almost every marriage runs into, and why couples can rarely tell you which one is actually doing the damage. The fire principle: why desire dies when you leave it alone, and what putting wood on the fire actually looks like in a real marriage. Pastor Temi's concept of expensive sex, and why leaving your own house might be exactly what saves it. What every husband should know…

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