About this episode

Vanessa Van Edwards discusses how behavior and body language shape attraction and connection.

Chemistry isn’t always something you either have or don’t – it’s often shaped by behavior, body language, and the subtle signals people send without realizing it. Vanessa Van Edwards, behavioral researcher, bestselling author of Cues and Captivate, and founder of Science of People, joins Julie & Yue to break down how to read attraction signals and build deeper connections. She explains how first impressions, micro-signals, and social cues influence attraction and trust within seconds, and why understanding these behaviors can completely change the way we connect with others. In this episode, you’ll learn: - How first impressions shape attraction and connection - The subtle cues people send without realizing it - Why some interactions feel natural while others feel forced - How body language impacts chemistry and trust - Ways to create stronger connection without trying so hard To learn more about Vanessa Van Edwards, follow her @vvanedwards and visit scienceofpeople.com Want to feel more connected to your partner? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/PORSHOW Our Sponsors: * Omaha Steaks: Try the Burger Perfection Flight at OmahaSteaks.com today. That’s 20…

People in this episode

Hosts: Julie Krafchick, Yue Xu

Guest: Vanessa Van Edwards

Topics covered

• attraction
• body language
• first impressions
• social cues
• connection

Keywords

• chemistry
• attraction signals
• micro-signals
• trust
• social interaction

Sponsors

Talkiatry, Omaha Steaks, Quince

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Science of People

Products: Brick

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