422. The psychology of Peter Pan Syndrome

About this episode

This episode explores the psychology behind Peter Pan Syndrome and its implications on adulting and relationships.

We’re all familiar with the story of the boy who wouldn’t grow up: Peter Pan. But when someone displays similar traits in real life - issues with commitment, responsibilities, and adulting in general - they might be experiencing what’s referred to as Peter Pan Syndrome. In this episode, we break down the psychology of Peter Pan Syndrome, including why it happens, the frustration it causes those in its orbit, and how to learn to grow up - at last. We unpack:  • The key characteristics of Peter Pan Syndrome • Why being coddled or never disciplined as a child can lead to struggles with ‘adulting’  • How ‘Wendy Syndrome’ can act as an enabler for Peter Pan Syndrome • What it feels like to date someone with Peter Pan Syndrome • How to overcome Peter Pan Syndrome Watch on Netflix: HERE Follow Jemma on Instagram: @ jemmasbeg Follow the podcast on Instagram: @ thatpsychologypodcast Subscribe on Substack: @ thepsychologyofyour20s For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com   Our favourite sources:  www.health.clevelandclinic.org/peter-pan-syndrome…

People in this episode

Host: Jemma

Topics covered

• Peter Pan Syndrome
• adulting
• commitment issues
• psychology
• Wendy Syndrome
• personal growth

Keywords

• Peter Pan Syndrome
• adulting
• commitment
• Wendy Syndrome
• psychology
• mental health

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: iHeartPodcasts, Cleveland Clinic, Psychology Today, CiteSeerX

Books & works: The Psychology of your 20s, Peter Pan Syndrome

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