I Used to Matter in All the Wrong Ways

I Used to Matter in All the Wrong Ways

June 8, 2025 · 48 min

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In this episode, Jay Luis confronts uncomfortable truths about his past relationships and experiences as he works through Step Four of his recovery journey.

Raw, unfiltered honesty cuts through every moment of this deeply personal inventory episode. As I continue working through Step Four, I confront the uncomfortable truths about my relationships, sexuality, and experiences with abuse that shaped my journey toward recovery. The inventory begins with reflections on my past relationships, revealing how desperately I needed to matter to others—whether positively or negatively. My sponsor's piercing observation that what I called being "chameleon-l...

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