The Blame Game: Stop Pointing the Finger and Start Growing
About this episode
This episode explores the detrimental effects of the blame game and how Stoic philosophy can help individuals take responsibility for their lives.
When did we stop asking what we could do better and start looking for someone else to blame? In this episode of the Via Stoica Podcast we examine one of the most common and costly habits in modern life: the blame game, and what Stoic philosophy says about how to break it. Welcome to the Via Stoica Podcast, the podcast on Stoicism. This episode is an honest look at how blame keeps us stuck, why it feels so comfortable, and what taking real responsibility for our lives actually looks like in practice. The shift did not happen overnight. A teacher approaching retirement described how in her early years, parents would tell underperforming children to work harder. Over time, that finger moved from the child to the teacher, from the self to everything outside it. That shift is not just happening in schools. It is happening in our relationships, our careers, and our inner lives. Epictetus placed blame squarely on the discipline of assent; we are not adding the correct judgment to what is happening. The discipline of desire reminds us that chasing externals makes blaming externals inevitable. And Epictetus described three stages of progress: the beginner blames everyone else, the…
People in this episode
Host: Benny Voncken
Topics covered
- blame
- responsibility
- Stoic philosophy
- personal growth
- self-improvement
- education
- relationships
Keywords
- blame game
- Stoicism
- personal responsibility
- Epictetus
- self-reflection
- growth
- education
- relationships
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: Badmic.com, viastoica.com, YouTube
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