Mailbag: Trauma & Type, Subtypes, Wings, and How We Grieve

Mailbag: Trauma & Type, Subtypes, Wings, and How We Grieve

June 12, 2026 · 30 min · Season 9 · Episode 49

About this episode

Ian and Anthony answer listener questions about trauma, Enneagram types, and grief processing.

We're going back into the vault for one of our most popular mailbag episodes from Season 3 — and the questions are just as good as we remembered. In this episode, Ian and co-host Anthony Skinner answer listener questions on some of the Enneagram's most nuanced and personal territory: Can trauma actually change your type? What is the "sunny Four," and why do subtypes matter so much for Fours and Sixes? How do Threes and Fours process grief differently — and what does healthy grieving even look like through an Enneagram lens? What does it mean to have a heavy wing, and can you access both wings for growth? And for the Ones in the room — what do you actually do with all that repressed anger? Whether you're new to Typology or you've been with us for years, this one is worth your time. Have a question of your own? Send it to wendy@ianmorgancron.com and you might hear it answered on our next mailbag episode.

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