He Won’t Go To Therapy But Says I’m the Problem

About this episode

Jared and Jordana discuss various relationship topics, including therapy and communication issues, sparked by a listener's email.

Jared and Jordana are back with a Friday Feels episode covering everything from postpartum “groove returns” and winter baby timing to why February birthdays hit differently! They revisit the good times of Facebook event invites, group emails, and how dating used to feel before constant texting took over. A listener's email sparks a debate about “babe” texts, over-texting before a first date, and whether you should just go on the date or call it early. Then they break down a 21-year-old married listener asking if she’s incompatible with her DJ husband who refuses therapy and says she has “bad energy.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People in this episode

Hosts: Jared, Jordana

Topics covered

• relationships
• therapy
• dating
• communication
• parenting
• social media

Keywords

• therapy
• dating
• relationships
• communication
• postpartum
• February birthdays
• over-texting

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Facebook, Megaphone

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