
U Up?
by Betches Media
Is this your podcast?Insights from recent episode analysis
Audience Interest
- modern dating experiences
- relationship advice
Podcast Focus
- dating world discussions
- relationship definitions
Publishing Consistency
- weekly episodes
- active for eight years
Platform Reach
- available on major podcast platforms
- Instagram presence for engagement
Insights are generated by CastFox AI using publicly available data, episode content, and proprietary models.
Most discussed topics
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Total monthly reach
Estimated from 46 chart positions in 46 markets.
By chart position
- 🇺🇸US · Relationships#41M to 3M
- 🇨🇦CA · Relationships#51M to 3M
- 🇬🇧GB · Relationships#38100K to 300K
- 🇦🇺AU · Relationships#5130K to 100K
- 🇩🇪DE · Relationships#1565K to 30K
- Per-Episode Audience
Est. listeners per new episode within ~30 days
755K to 2.3M🎙 Daily cadence·760 episodes·Last published yesterday - Monthly Reach
Unique listeners across all episodes (30 days)
2.5M to 7.6M🇺🇸39%🇨🇦39%🇬🇧4%+43 more - Active Followers
Loyal subscribers who consistently listen
755K to 2.3M
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Platform Distribution
Reach across major podcast platforms, updated hourly
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On the show
From 34 epsHosts
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Recent episodes
How Long Should Your Husband Wait to Remarry After You Die?
Sep 2, 2026
1h 25m 01s
How Do You Start Dating Again After Divorce?
Aug 28, 2026
40m 57s
Does a Texting Lull Mean the Date Is Off?
Aug 26, 2026
1h 15m 26s
Would You Take a Sperm Donation From A Married Friend?
Aug 21, 2026
49m 28s
Your Crush Is Dating Your Friend. What Do You Do?
Aug 19, 2026
1h 32m 44s
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| Date | Episode | Topics | Guests | Brands | Places | Keywords | Sponsor | Length | |
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| 9/2/26 | How Long Should Your Husband Wait to Remarry After You Die? | Jared shares about meeting his girlfriend’s friends, how he got questioned about his phone use, and how being in a relationship means meeting the friend group! Then J&J discuss how men really feel about losing a partner, how they would go about life after a partner’s death, how often your spouse should visit your grave, and whether remarrying too soon should get you written out of the will. They also discuss a husband lying about buying his ex a gift, stalking an ex’s IG stories, Disney Adult red flags, asking someone if they had a good time on a date, and whether shutting off your apartment’s electricity is a red flag or a deal breaker. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 25m 01s | ||||||
| 8/28/26 | How Do You Start Dating Again After Divorce? | Jordana and Jared watch a TikTok of a groom zip lining into his own wedding and debate whether a groom spending $24K is a major ICK. They then answer a question from a newly single mother who is nervous about dating again, and they call Jordana's mother! Jordana's mom is a gynecologist who has dated after divorce and raised 8 kids, and gives a lot of great advice this episode about getting back into dating, talking about your kids with your date, feeling confident and sexy again, and why a date should feel like a chance to get out of mommy mode! Plus, Dr. Lisa Rosenberg gives some VERY candid advice about keeping things fresh down there! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 40m 57s | ||||||
| 8/26/26 | Does a Texting Lull Mean the Date Is Off? | Jordana and Jared discuss a dating app match who canceled a first date after there was a lull in texting and then sent practically a full dissertation explaining his communication style as if his date was in the wrong for not knowing. J&J also answer whether wearing an ex’s gift years later means you’re still thinking about them, if a co-ed bachelor party where partners aren’t invited is petty, and whether a filthy apartment is an instant deal breaker! Also Jared shares how he shares his upgrade on a flight with his girlfriend instead of taking it for himself – growth!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 15m 26s | ||||||
| 8/21/26 | Would You Take a Sperm Donation From A Married Friend? | It’s a Friday Feels episode and J&J are questioning, "would you pay $5,000 to break up with someone"? The two then get into listener questions and discuss whether it’s petty or prudent to ask for your shared spicy toy back after a breakup. They also read a question from a single woman who is searching for a sperm donor to have a child and was surprised when her married male friends offered their own – without consulting their partners!?! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 49m 28s | ||||||
| 8/19/26 | Your Crush Is Dating Your Friend. What Do You Do? | Jordana and Jared discuss what to do when your friend starts dating your crush, whether the way you handle getting roasted at a comedy show is an ick, and how to handle overbearing in-laws. They also talk summer dating, waiting for your partner at the airport, and using AI to write a prenup. Also Jared has a new Netflix special, The Family Plan, coming September 1! Add to your queue today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 32m 44s | ||||||
| 8/14/26 | Harry Jowsey Wants to Be a Stay-at-Home Husband | Harry Jowsey joins Jordana and Jared to talk about how he was engaged to 20 women at once for his new Netflix’s show, Let’s Marry Harry, what changed for him after losing his father and why dating is harder when it's played out on social media! Harry weighs in on listener questions where the guy asks for a first-date ultimatum and whether it’s ok to date multiple people at once, and why he’d rather text than call someone for a breakup. We learn a lot about Harry and how charming he is and why you should watch his new show! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 33m 46s | ||||||
| 8/12/26 | Can You be Engaged for Years without Getting Married? | Jordana and Jared debate whether it’s okay for your boyfriend to go on a trip with his ex, especially when they still own an apartment together. They also decide if an ex was petty for showing his former girlfriend the engagement ring he bought for her, and whether a bad first kiss is enough to end a great date. Plus, they talk fanny packs, tasting-menu dates, and why some couples get engaged without planning to get married. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 08m 19s | ||||||
| 8/7/26 | What Do Men Actually Want on Their Wedding Night? | Jared opens up about a fear of his when getting serious with his partner, figuring out how to balance love, family, and a career that keeps him on the road. Then J&J debate whether a husband should text his ex happy birthday and solve a bride’s very specific $10,000 wedding dress wedding night dilemma! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 45m 50s | ||||||
| 8/5/26 | Jordana Is Looking for a New Sister-in-Law! | Jordana and Jared get a visit from Jordana’s brother, Jon! He joins to pick up a toothbrush but ends up talking about dating in San Francisco, why he wants more banter and “relational chaos,” and whether Jordana can help him find a girlfriend. Then J&J play Second Date Yay or Nay after a three hour brewery date ends with a guy asking if a woman’s birthmark is an allergic reaction. It’s giving Nay. Also, Red Flag or deal breaker: your boyfriend refuses to like your IG post? They also discuss whether a boyfriend should offer to help when his girlfriend is overwhelmed by a new golden retriever puppy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 01m 55s | ||||||
| 7/31/26 | How to Survive Wedding Season Alone | Jordana and Jared discuss a petty or prudent and whether a brutal Costco-inspired rejection text was justified? They discuss what singles mixers are really like and why SIMPLE first dates usually beat elaborate plans! They then help a listener who feels like the only single person at every wedding, sharing advice on surviving the wedding season, finding more single friends, and stopping the comparison trap. You have to find your people! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 43m 49s | ||||||
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| 7/29/26 | The Situationship Trap Nobody Talks About | Jordana and Jared are back talking about what it means to feel successful, happy, and “content” while still chasing the next big thing! They break down the confusing world of dating labels after a Love Island conversation about situationships, exclusivity, and when someone is actually your boyfriend or girlfriend. Plus, they answer listener questions about a date who sent a questionable outfit text, whether to expose a cheating ex, and what is a dating “ick” and what is actually a deal breaker. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 21m 42s | ||||||
| 7/24/26 | Does Cheating Justify Public Humiliation? | Jared calls his parents with some BIG news about a very important award, and you won't believe their guesses! Then, Jordana and Jared get into listener questions, breaking down a woman posting flyers about her ex all over Indianapolis in the Are We Dating The Same Guy Facebook group, and a new website that only reconnects exes if they secretly choose each other. Would you try to reconnect with your ex on a dating app? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 38m 00s | ||||||
| 7/22/26 | Would You Date Someone Who Sees Their Ex Every Month? | Jared and Jordana are talking about kids and whether Jared would actually make a good father, since icky things don't seem to phase him! Jared encourages people to be present this summer, delete the dating apps, and get outside. They then get into a listener question about hanging out with your in-laws: do you need your spouse to be there to spend time with your mother-in-law? Plus, they tackle some Red Flag or Deal Breakers, including never making your bed, co-parenting a dog with your ex, and a date who asks you to bring Adderall! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 21m 01s | ||||||
| 7/17/26 | emotional cheatingdivorce+3 | — | Strangers | — | emotional cheatingdivorce+3 | — | 51m 17s | ||
| 7/15/26 | datingrelationships+3 | — | — | — | datingrelationships+5 | — | 1h 19m 46s | ||
| 7/10/26 | breakuprelationships+3 | — | — | — | right person wrong timebreakup+3 | — | 33m 58s | ||
| 7/8/26 | datingsports fandom+4 | — | PhilliesMSG | Fire Island | Phillies fandating+4 | — | 1h 32m 47s | ||
| 7/3/26 | Fourth of Julyweddings+3 | — | — | — | Fourth of Julyweddings+4 | — | 49m 45s | ||
| 7/1/26 | datingrelationships+4 | — | — | — | datingexes+5 | — | 1h 28m 15s | ||
| 6/26/26 | relationship adviceAI in relationships+3 | — | ChatGPTI Stumbled Across My Boyfriend's ChatGPT and It Ended Our Relationship | — | relationship adviceChatGPT+3 | — | 30m 24s | ||
| 6/24/26 | sportscommunity+4 | — | KnicksBravo+1 | — | Knickssports+6 | — | 1h 19m 26s | ||
| 6/19/26 | datinghealth+4 | — | GLP-1New York Times+1 | — | GLP-1dating+5 | — | 40m 07s | ||
| 6/17/26 | cheatingrelationships+3 | — | — | — | cheatingNotes app+3 | — | 1h 22m 00s | ||
| 6/12/26 | parentingsurrogacy+3 | — | — | — | surrogacyparenting+3 | — | 42m 55s | ||
| 6/10/26 | relationshipsside hustles+4 | — | Home Depot | — | side hustlerelationship dilemma+5 | — | 1h 28m 02s | ||
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Key insights
What the show covers
- dating world discussions
- relationship definitions
- sexual encounter interpretations
- advice on avoiding loneliness
Audience interests
- modern dating experiences
- relationship advice
- dating app interactions
- humorous dating commentary
Platform reach
- available on major podcast platforms
- Instagram presence for engagement
- potentially wide audience reach
- no specific platforms detected yet
Publishing consistency
- weekly episodes
- active for eight years
- over 760 episodes
- consistent release schedule
Chart history for U Up?
Peaked at #4 in United States, top 10 in 3 of 50 tracked markets, currently #4 in United States.
| Market | Genre | Peak | Current | Trend |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| United States | — | #4 | #4 | — |
| Canada | — | #5 | #5 | — |
| IS | — | #6 | #6 | — |
| South Korea | — | #12 | #12 | — |
| HU | — | #21 | #21 | — |
| CO | — | #21 | #21 | — |
| TH | — | #23 | #23 | — |
| VN | — | #26 | #26 | — |
| ID | — | #28 | #28 | — |
| PL | — | #31 | #31 | — |
| RO | — | #32 | #32 | — |
| CL | — | #37 | #37 | — |
| United Kingdom | — | #38 | #38 | — |
| PT | — | #38 | #38 | — |
| Finland | — | #38 | #38 | — |
| India | — | #39 | #39 | — |
| Ireland | — | #40 | #40 | — |
| SG | — | #40 | #40 | — |
| AE | — | #46 | #46 | — |
| HK | — | #47 | #47 | — |
Chart Positions
50 placements across 46 markets.
Chart Positions
50 placements across 46 markets.