U Up?
by Betches Media
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Can Friendship Breakups Be Fixed in Therapy? ft. Esther Perel
Oct 16, 2026
55m 14s
My Mother-in-Law Stalks My Husband’s Ex and Keeps Comparing Me to Her
Oct 14, 2026
1h 28m 18s
My BF Asked His Ex-Wife for Her Engagement Ring Back, What an ICK
Oct 9, 2026
51m 53s
I Thought We Were in Love, But Then He Listed 20 Reasons to Break Up!
Oct 7, 2026
1h 25m 52s
Can Your Marriage Survive Living With Your Parents? ft Heather McMahan
Oct 2, 2026
43m 35s
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Audience Interest
- modern dating experiences
- relationship advice
Podcast Focus
- dating world discussions
- relationship definitions
Publishing Consistency
- weekly episodes
- active for eight years
Platform Reach
- available on major podcast platforms
- Instagram presence for engagement
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- 🇺🇸United States · RelationshipsHOME#8167K to 1.0M
- 🇨🇦Canada · Relationships#183.6K to 22K
- 🇰🇷South Korea · Relationships#83.3K to 21K
- 🇮🇳India · Relationships#262.7K to 17K
- 🇬🇧United Kingdom · Relationships#412.4K to 15K
- Per-Episode Audience
Est. listeners per new episode within ~30 days
189K to 1.2M🎙 Daily cadence·800 episodes·Last published 3d ago - Monthly Reach
Unique listeners across all episodes (30 days)
632K to 3.9M🇺🇸88%🇨🇦2%🇰🇷2%+4 more - Active Followers
Loyal subscribers who consistently listen
253K to 1.6M
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| Date | Episode | Topics | Guests | Brands | Places | Keywords | Sponsor | Length | |
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| 10/16/26 | Can Friendship Breakups Be Fixed in Therapy? ft. Esther Perel | Esther Perel is back to join Jordana and Jared to talk about AI girlfriends, if using AI to write a love letter is dishonest, and the real reason we are choosing our phones over in-person connection. J&J and Esther talk about friendship breakups and whether going to therapy with your friend will help. Plus, we get Esther Perel’s take on chores in the home. Does she end up agreeing with J&J’s dating advice?! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 55m 14s | ||||||
| 10/14/26 | My Mother-in-Law Stalks My Husband’s Ex and Keeps Comparing Me to Her | This week, J&J learn that Hinge is banning screenshots, and they question whether this is good for dating or helps cheaters get away with it! They Jordana and Jared see a man who posted his divorce announcement with a thoughtful, brief FAQ and discuss whether all breakups should have posts like these. They then discuss if it’s weird to keep a list of everyone you’ve slept with, whether single friends should be invited to couples nights, and if it’s petty to refuse to treat your ex’s new baby. Lastly, they discuss being compared to an ex by your husband’s family and how many football leagues are too many to be apart of?! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 28m 18s | ||||||
| 10/9/26 | My BF Asked His Ex-Wife for Her Engagement Ring Back, What an ICK | Jared and Jordana are learning about Instagram’s new blur feature for “soft launching” couples in their new segment, Are U Up to Date? They then answer a listener’s email about asking for an engagement ring back after years of marriage and whether it’s petty or prudent. Lastly, they help an unsure listener who doesn’t want a second big wedding, but her new fiancé, who has never been married, wants a big wedding to celebrate his family’s Chinese wedding traditions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 51m 53s | ||||||
| 10/7/26 | I Thought We Were in Love, But Then He Listed 20 Reasons to Break Up! | Jordana and Jared are reading through a listener’s breakup texts, and the list of reasons to end it is long! A cozy cabin weekend in the woods was not as romantic as she thought, with complaints about restaurant choices, what time to go to the farmers market, and feeling judged for her kinks. J&J also get into the latest dating news, from Margot Robbie taking her husband’s last name after nearly 10 years of marriage to a $10 NYC dating photo booth that matches strangers using question surveys. Lastly, they get into family-related red flag dealbreakers, including a boyfriend who texts his girlfriend’s mom, a family that keeps the TV on all day, and if refusing to try your partner’s mom’s food is a dealbreaker. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 25m 52s | ||||||
| 10/2/26 | Can Your Marriage Survive Living With Your Parents? ft Heather McMahan | Heather McMahan joins Jordana & Jared to talk about living with her mom after becoming a newlywed and getting fired from the Ryder Cup! She talks about how meeting her husband in a gay bar made her feel love at first sight, and she shares her direct advice on how to pick a life partner! Lastly, they help give advice to a newly married couple with a baby on how to navigate living with their parents while being new parents themselves! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 43m 35s | ||||||
| 9/30/26 | My Boyfriend Has a High-Conflict Baby Mama – Help! | It’s a rapid fire episode with 10 relationship questions from YOU, the listeners. Jordana and Jared answer questions about how long is too long to go without sex or a marriage proposal! They discuss whether high-drama baby mamas are worth it long-term, how to split chores at home, and how to combine finances. They also discuss trips, from honeymoons to splitting visits with the in-laws for the holidays, and how both can be stressful to plan! Lastly, they get into relationships outside your marriage and whether you can come back from emotional cheating or not. It’s a spicy rapid fire episode you don’t want to miss! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 00m 43s | ||||||
| 9/25/26 | She's Older, He's Younger: Is a 7-Year Age Gap Too Much? | It’s autumn, and Jordana & Jared are challenging their listeners to put down their phones, get out of the house, and talk to people! They then get into questions from you and decide if secretly hiding your partner’s ugly clothes is petty or prudent. Or just helpful?! Lastly, they help a woman decide whether or not to make a move on a guy 7 years her junior. Does age really matter? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 35m 22s | ||||||
| 9/23/26 | My Husband Used AI to Write Me a Birthday Card! | Jordana discovers her husband used an AI chat to help him write her birthday card, and she has some feelings about whether a love letter still counts when chat gpt edits it for you! Jared and Jordana then get into listener questions, answering a woman who found her husband texting an ex, whether busking on NYC streets is a red flag, and whether asking for a number before a date means something or if it’s okay to keep the chat on hinge. They also discuss Jared’s comedy special and how getting a message from David Schwimmer, yes, Ross Geller, was a career highlight! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 19m 41s | ||||||
| 9/18/26 | Dumping Someone in Public: Is It Ever Okay? | Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 57m 17s | ||||||
| 9/16/26 | My Boyfriend Won’t Propose Until I Run 125 km! | Jordana tells Jared how her vacation ended up being the busiest and most unrelaxing, but also the most fun, due to Ronnie the dog getting kicked out of boarding for peeing and joining the family’s chaotic Montauk trip! They then get into listener emails and discuss whether a partner should wait in the regular TSA line, what actually marks the end of the honeymoon phase, and whether small gestures like Trader Joe’s flowers matter more than big romantic moves. They also talk about a passionate “lake life” man who may have used his love of camping as an excuse to break up, and whether a fantasy football draft on your wife’s birthday is a red flag or deal breaker. We say yes! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 36m 58s | ||||||
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| 9/11/26 | wedding crashingdating advice+3 | — | — | — | wedding crashingdating apps+3 | — | 38m 59s | ||
| 9/9/26 | relationshipsjealousy+3 | — | — | — | ICKboyfriend+5 | — | 1h 14m 30s | ||
| 9/4/26 | datingrelationships+3 | Lauren Lapkus | — | — | dating appactors+5 | — | 34m 12s | ||
| 9/2/26 | relationshipsgrief+4 | — | Disney | — | remarriagegrief+3 | — | 1h 25m 01s | ||
| 8/28/26 | dating after divorceparenting+3 | Jordana's mother | Betches Media | — | divorcedating+5 | — | 40m 57s | ||
| 8/26/26 | datingcommunication+4 | — | — | — | texting lullfirst date+4 | — | 1h 15m 26s | ||
| 8/21/26 | sperm donationrelationships+3 | — | — | — | sperm donationbreakup+3 | — | 49m 28s | ||
| 8/19/26 | datingrelationships+3 | — | The Family Plan | — | crushfriend+3 | — | 1h 32m 44s | ||
| 8/14/26 | datingrelationships+3 | Harry Jowsey | NetflixLet’s Marry Harry | — | Harry Jowseydating+4 | — | 33m 46s | ||
| 8/12/26 | engagementrelationships+3 | — | — | — | engagementex-boyfriend+3 | — | 1h 08m 19s | ||
| 8/7/26 | What Do Men Actually Want on Their Wedding Night? | Jared opens up about a fear of his when getting serious with his partner, figuring out how to balance love, family, and a career that keeps him on the road. Then J&J debate whether a husband should text his ex happy birthday and solve a bride’s very specific $10,000 wedding dress wedding night dilemma! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 45m 50s | ||||||
| 8/5/26 | Jordana Is Looking for a New Sister-in-Law! | Jordana and Jared get a visit from Jordana’s brother, Jon! He joins to pick up a toothbrush but ends up talking about dating in San Francisco, why he wants more banter and “relational chaos,” and whether Jordana can help him find a girlfriend. Then J&J play Second Date Yay or Nay after a three hour brewery date ends with a guy asking if a woman’s birthmark is an allergic reaction. It’s giving Nay. Also, Red Flag or deal breaker: your boyfriend refuses to like your IG post? They also discuss whether a boyfriend should offer to help when his girlfriend is overwhelmed by a new golden retriever puppy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 01m 55s | ||||||
| 7/31/26 | How to Survive Wedding Season Alone | Jordana and Jared discuss a petty or prudent and whether a brutal Costco-inspired rejection text was justified? They discuss what singles mixers are really like and why SIMPLE first dates usually beat elaborate plans! They then help a listener who feels like the only single person at every wedding, sharing advice on surviving the wedding season, finding more single friends, and stopping the comparison trap. You have to find your people! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 43m 49s | ||||||
| 7/29/26 | The Situationship Trap Nobody Talks About | Jordana and Jared are back talking about what it means to feel successful, happy, and “content” while still chasing the next big thing! They break down the confusing world of dating labels after a Love Island conversation about situationships, exclusivity, and when someone is actually your boyfriend or girlfriend. Plus, they answer listener questions about a date who sent a questionable outfit text, whether to expose a cheating ex, and what is a dating “ick” and what is actually a deal breaker. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 21m 42s | ||||||
| 7/24/26 | Does Cheating Justify Public Humiliation? | Jared calls his parents with some BIG news about a very important award, and you won't believe their guesses! Then, Jordana and Jared get into listener questions, breaking down a woman posting flyers about her ex all over Indianapolis in the Are We Dating The Same Guy Facebook group, and a new website that only reconnects exes if they secretly choose each other. Would you try to reconnect with your ex on a dating app? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 38m 00s | ||||||
| 7/17/26 | emotional cheatingdivorce+3 | — | Strangers | — | emotional cheatingdivorce+3 | — | 51m 17s | ||
| 7/15/26 | datingrelationships+3 | — | — | — | datingrelationships+5 | — | 1h 19m 46s | ||
| 7/10/26 | breakuprelationships+3 | — | — | — | right person wrong timebreakup+3 | — | 33m 58s | ||
| 7/8/26 | datingsports fandom+4 | — | PhilliesMSG | Fire Island | Phillies fandating+4 | — | 1h 32m 47s | ||
| 7/3/26 | Fourth of Julyweddings+3 | — | — | — | Fourth of Julyweddings+4 | — | 49m 45s | ||
| 7/1/26 | datingrelationships+4 | — | — | — | datingexes+5 | — | 1h 28m 15s | ||
| 6/26/26 | relationship adviceAI in relationships+3 | — | ChatGPTI Stumbled Across My Boyfriend's ChatGPT and It Ended Our Relationship | — | relationship adviceChatGPT+3 | — | 30m 24s | ||
| 6/24/26 | sportscommunity+4 | — | KnicksBravo+1 | — | Knickssports+6 | — | 1h 19m 26s | ||
| 6/19/26 | datinghealth+4 | — | GLP-1New York Times+1 | — | GLP-1dating+5 | — | 40m 07s | ||
| 6/17/26 | cheatingrelationships+3 | — | — | — | cheatingNotes app+3 | — | 1h 22m 00s | ||
| 6/12/26 | parentingsurrogacy+3 | — | — | — | surrogacyparenting+3 | — | 42m 55s | ||
| 6/10/26 | relationshipsside hustles+4 | — | Home Depot | — | side hustlerelationship dilemma+5 | — | 1h 28m 02s | ||
| 6/5/26 | prenatal carerelationships+3 | — | FacebookStagecoach | — | ex-fiancéprofile picture+4 | — | 53m 11s | ||
| 6/3/26 | dating advicerelationship dynamics+3 | — | Walking Red Flag: Dating Advice from Your Favorite Guy FriendBetches Media | — | datingwedding etiquette+5 | — | 1h 38m 05s | ||
| 5/29/26 | datingAI matchmaking+3 | — | Bumble | — | BumbleAI matchmaker+5 | — | 53m 58s | ||
| 5/27/26 | cheatingrelationships+4 | — | — | — | cheatinglying+5 | — | 1h 33m 00s | ||
| 5/22/26 | couples therapyrelationship mistakes+3 | Dr. Orna Guralnik | Couples Therapy | — | couples therapyrelationship advice+3 | — | 49m 31s | ||
| 5/20/26 | relationshipspregnancy+3 | — | — | — | pregnancyex relationships+3 | — | 1h 15m 55s | ||
| 5/15/26 | relationship dynamicsmonogamy+3 | Samantha Wynn GreenstoneJacob Hoff | I Married A Gay ManFiddler on the Roof | — | monogamous relationshipgay marriage+3 | — | 50m 43s | ||
| 5/13/26 | breakuprelationships+4 | — | — | — | breakup revengefamily photos+3 | — | 1h 35m 31s | ||
| 5/8/26 | relationshipstherapy+4 | — | FacebookMegaphone | — | therapydating+5 | — | 53m 49s | ||
| 5/6/26 | relationshipsdating advice+3 | — | — | — | breast milklove bombing+5 | — | 1h 25m 57s | ||
| 5/1/26 | dating advicerelationship analysis+3 | Sharleen JoyntAndy Levine | Dear ShandyBetches Media+1 | — | dating advicerelationship confusion+3 | — | 45m 34s | ||
| 4/29/26 | dating advicecelebrity culture+3 | — | — | — | dating red flagscelebrity dating advice+3 | — | 1h 13m 47s | ||
| 4/24/26 | dating advicerelationships+3 | — | Tinder | — | DMgirlfriend+7 | — | 46m 02s | ||
| 4/22/26 | dating appsrelationships+3 | — | — | NYC | dating app nightmarered flags+3 | — | 56m 42s | ||
| 4/17/26 | datingrelationships+3 | — | OzempicInstagram+2 | — | Mike VrabelOzempic+3 | — | 58m 21s | ||
| 4/15/26 | datingsocial media+4 | — | Betches Media | — | TikTok famedating history+4 | — | 1h 30m 41s | ||
| 4/10/26 | reality TVdating+3 | — | — | — | Summer Housedating announcements+3 | — | 58m 34s | ||
| 4/8/26 | situationshipsbreakups+4 | Jared’s mom | — | — | situationshipsbreakups+4 | — | 1h 33m 32s | ||
| 4/3/26 | meeting familylong distance dating+3 | — | — | — | meeting parentsrelationship advice+3 | — | 36m 20s | ||
| 4/1/26 | parentingrelationships+4 | — | HBOEuphoria | — | relationshipsparenting+4 | — | 1h 19m 25s | ||
| 3/27/26 | relationshipscommunication+3 | Emma Willmann | — | — | relationship advicegrammar correction+3 | — | 49m 26s | ||
| 3/25/26 | breakup advicedating dilemmas+3 | Tiff Baira | Street Hearts | — | breakupflirting+5 | — | 1h 15m 48s | ||
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What the show covers
- dating world discussions
- relationship definitions
- sexual encounter interpretations
- advice on avoiding loneliness
Audience interests
- modern dating experiences
- relationship advice
- dating app interactions
- humorous dating commentary
Platform reach
- available on major podcast platforms
- Instagram presence for engagement
- potentially wide audience reach
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Publishing consistency
- weekly episodes
- active for eight years
- over 760 episodes
- consistent release schedule
Chart history for U Up?
Peaked at #5 in CL, top 10 in 5 of 50 tracked markets, currently #5 in CL.
| Market | Genre | Peak | Current | Trend |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| CL | — | #5 | #5 | — |
| SG | — | #6 | #6 | — |
| United States | — | #8 | #8 | — |
| IL | — | #8 | #8 | — |
| South Korea | — | #8 | #8 | — |
| Canada | — | #18 | #18 | — |
| MY | — | #18 | #18 | — |
| PH | — | #25 | #25 | — |
| ID | — | #25 | #25 | — |
| India | — | #26 | #26 | — |
| Ireland | — | #27 | #27 | — |
| PT | — | #28 | #28 | — |
| Finland | — | #29 | #29 | — |
| Spain | — | #34 | #34 | — |
| IS | — | #35 | #35 | — |
| RO | — | #35 | #35 | — |
| TH | — | #38 | #38 | — |
| United Kingdom | — | #41 | #41 | — |
| IL | — | #42 | #42 | — |
| HU | — | #43 | #43 | — |
Chart Positions
50 placements across 42 markets.
Chart Positions
50 placements across 42 markets.