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This episode explores the hidden expectations we place on success and how it cannot provide true self-worth or peace.

Have you ever reached a goal only to realize it didn't change how you felt about yourself? In this episode of The Unlearning Podcast, we're exploring the hidden expectations many of us place on success. We believe achievements will make us feel worthy, validated, safe, connected, or at peace, but those experiences can't be earned through accomplishment alone. Join me for a compassionate conversation about self-worth, nervous system safety, belonging, validation, and why peace isn't something waiting at the finish line. If you've ever found yourself saying, "I'll be happy when..." this episode is for you. Because success can change your circumstances, but it can't give you what has been within you all along.

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Host: Shayna Naus

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