166: Confidence Isn’t What You Think

166: Confidence Isn’t What You Think

From Unstuck with Jay Abbasi by Jay Abbasi

May 4, 2026 · 58 min · Season 1 · Episode 166

About this episode

In this episode, Jay Abbasi and communication expert Erik Dominguez discuss the nature of confidence and practical tools to build it.

What if confidence isn’t something you have… but something you build? Meet Gabriel. He spots a senior leader he admires and immediately looks away. Another missed opportunity. At work, he’s sharp, reliable, and trusted to solve complex problems. But when it comes to speaking up, especially around authority, his confidence disappears. He knows it’s holding him back, not his ability, but his voice. In this episode, Jay sits down with Erik Dominguez, a communication expert who transformed from a shy, ridiculed kid into a sought-after speaker and trainer. Together, they break down what confidence actually is, and why most people misunderstand how to build it. From separating safety from comfort to practicing communication under pressure, Erik shares practical tools to help you speak up, trust yourself, and lead with greater impact. Notable Quotes “Confidence is the ability to respond.” — Erik Dominguez “Nothing good happens in your comfort zone.” — Erik Dominguez “Communication nerves are selfish.” — Erik Dominguez “Other people can only trust you to the extent that you trust yourself.” — Erik Dominguez About Our Guest Erik Dominguez is a keynote speaker, communication trainer, and…

People in this episode

Host: Jay Abbasi

Guest: Erik Dominguez

Topics covered

  • confidence
  • communication
  • personal development
  • leadership
  • self-trust

Keywords

  • confidence
  • communication skills
  • leadership
  • self-trust
  • public speaking

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Erik Dominguez Website

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