Episode 153: Your Insecurity is Your Issue

About this episode

This episode explores the root causes of insecurities in the lifestyle and offers tools for overcoming them.

We've talked about jealousy, we've talked about body image. We've discussed learning to flirt and being corageous in the lifestyle. But beneath the surface we all have insecurities about ourselves at the root of all these things! In this episode we share what we beleive are the causes of our insecurities, how they manifest themselves in our lifestlye journey and share tools to help overcome them to find freedom in being yourself and enjoying others! Mentioned in this episode: Luxe Music Studio- Playtime on Spotify (Music used with Permission) Contact us for a promo code to try our WGT Community Visit our website Join our WGT Community Follow us on Instagram and 'X' Here is some background on the four Luxe Music Studio songs previewed during this episode (with permission): " I Like to Share": We wanted a song that had an anthem-like chorus that we could imagine being played at lifestyle clubs, events and resorts. While the song focuses on a FFM experience, the theme stands on its own as a celebration of trust, non-jealousy and truly enjoying seeing your partner experience pleasure with others. I find it especially arousing, being bisexual, seeing a woman I find sexy and attractive…

People in this episode

Host: Mr & Mrs Jones

Topics covered

• insecurity
• jealousy
• body image
• lifestyle
• self-acceptance

Keywords

• insecurity
• jealousy
• body image
• lifestyle
• self-acceptance
• freedom
• flirting

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Luxe Music Studio

Books & works: Playtime, I Like to Share, Dressed to Undress

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