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Episode 154: Why Comparison is the Thief of Joy
May 1, 2026
Unknown duration
Episode 153: Your Insecurity is Your Issue
Apr 16, 2026
1h 01m 07s
Episode 152: Managing Anxiety in the Lifestyle
Apr 1, 2026
53m 54s
Episode 151: The Resort- A Gateway to Ethical Non-Monogamy
Mar 19, 2026
1h 00m 13s
Episode 150: Is the Lifestyle Addictive?
Mar 5, 2026
1h 12m 41s
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| Date | Episode | Topics | Guests | Brands | Places | Keywords | Sponsor | Length | |
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| 5/1/26 |  Episode 154: Why Comparison is the Thief of Joy | In this episode, Kel from Expansive Connection discusses the pervasive issue of comparison, its roots in human evolution, and practical tools to manage it. The conversation explores how comparison impacts self-esteem, relationships, and the lifestyle, offering actionable strategies to foster self-acceptance and joy. Key Topics The evolutionary roots of comparison and negativity bias How comparison distorts self-image and relationships Practical tools for managing comparison and envy The importance of self-awareness and evidence-based self-love Strategies for building confidence and connection Mentioned in this episode: Join the We Gotta Thing Community Contact Mr Jones for a Community Promo Code Expansive Connection Website | — | ||||||
| 4/16/26 | Episode 153: Your Insecurity is Your Issue✨ | insecurityjealousy+3 | — | Luxe Music StudioPlaytime+2 | — | insecurityjealousy+5 | — | 1h 01m 07s | |
| 4/1/26 |  Episode 152: Managing Anxiety in the Lifestyle✨ | anxietyswinging lifestyle+3 | Meshai | Expansive Connection Coaching | — | anxietyswinging+3 | — | 53m 54s | |
| 3/19/26 | Episode 151: The Resort- A Gateway to Ethical Non-Monogamy✨ | ethical non-monogamytravel+4 | — | The ResortPornoson+2 | — | The Resortethical non-monogamy+5 | — | 1h 00m 13s | |
| 3/5/26 |  Episode 150: Is the Lifestyle Addictive?✨ | lifestyle addictionNew Relationship Energy+3 | Catherine | Expansive ConnectionThe Hidden Brain Podcast: The Paradox of Pleasure+1 | — | lifestyle addictionswinging+3 | — | 1h 12m 41s | |
| 2/11/26 | Episode 149: How to Be a Power Couple in the Lifestyle✨ | non-monogamypower couple+3 | — | We Gotta Thing | — | power couplenon-monogamy+3 | — | 1h 10m 05s | |
| 1/28/26 |  Episode 148: Reframing Christian Faith and the Lifestyle✨ | non-monogamyChristian faith+5 | Dr Mitch G | Embracing ProdigalsHow the Bible Actually Works+6 | — | non-monogamyChristian faith+7 | — | 1h 24m 57s | |
| 1/16/26 | Episode 147: Safer Sex with STD Hero✨ | safer sexSTD awareness+3 | Alan BrockDr William Budd | Better Life SciencesSTD Hero+2 | — | safer sexSTD testing+4 | — | 1h 29m 45s | |
| 12/30/25 |  Episode 146: How Relationships Change Over Time✨ | relationship dynamicschange over time+3 | Kel | Expansive Connection CoachingWe Gotta Thing Community | — | relationshipsmonogamous+5 | — | 1h 15m 45s | |
| 12/16/25 | Episode 145: Ask Us (And Our Friends) Anything✨ | swingingQ&A+3 | — | — | Desire Pearl | swingingDesire Pearl+3 | WGTWGT100 | 1h 23m 11s | |
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| 11/26/25 |  Episode 144: Lifestyle Coaching in the Aftermath of Loss✨ | lifestyle coachingnon-monogamy+3 | Catherine | Expansive Connection | — | lifestyle coachingnon-monogamy+3 | — | 1h 05m 00s | |
| 11/12/25 |  Episode 143: Swinging & Polyamory- Are We More Alike than We Think? | We are joined by Dedeker, Emily and Jase from the Multiamory* podcast to discuss the similarities and differences between the swinging lifestyle and polyamory! We also talk about what exactly New Relationship Energy (NRE) is and how we can recognize and navigate those strong feelings and emotions when they hit you or someone you love. *Multiamory centers multiple forms of love- everything from monogamy to nonmonogamy, casual dating to queerplatoni partnerships, married couples living separately to those who are single by choice, and everything in between. The Multiamory Podcast and Team | — | ||||||
| 10/28/25 | Episode 142: Catherine's Story- "My Marriage Fell Apart" | This episode gets very real and very personal. Catherine, from Expansive Connection Relationship Coaching, tells her story of how her marriage fell apart while engaged in a non-monogamous relationship with her husband. Many couples fear this type of loss when considering and moving into and through non-monogamy. Catherine courageously shares her story so that others may benefit and be fully prepared for making such an important relationship decision. Expansive Connection Coaching We Gotta Thing Episode 41- A Licensed Counselor Breaks Down Jealousy Making Polyamory Work Episode- Coming Out to Your Kids Normalizing Non Monogamy- Catherine & Ray Jen Hatmaker- Awake WGT Single Guys Only Space | — | ||||||
| 9/25/25 |  Episode 141: What Newbies Need to Know and Veterans Need to Remember | Join us and Meshai from Expansive Connection Coaching as we discuss the six most important things those new to the lifestyle need to know and us veterans of the lifestyle need always to remember: Radical Honesty as the Starting Point Shifting Mindsets: From Specialness to Uniqueness Navigating Jealousy and Compersion with Conscious Awareness Boundaries, Agreements and People-Pleasing Navigating Different Paces in the Journey Co-Creating Evolving Agreements Expansive Connection Coaching We Gotta Thing Community We Gotta Thing Website We Gotta Thing on Instagram | — | ||||||
| 9/11/25 |  Episode 140: Back in the Swing of Things | None of us are immune from having 'real life' issues disrupt our relationship or our current life plans and goals. Health issues, family responsibilities, career changes and relocations are just a few of the things that we can expect to encounter in life that will change our priorities. After just over a year of not playing with others in the lifestyle we are happy to announce we are back in the game! Listen in to learn why we stopped, what we had to work through as a couple, what we learned and how we decided to reengage with others at this time. Mentioned this episode: WGT Quarterly Membership Promo Code: WGT930 (expires September 30, 2025) 2 + 2 Swingers Club in Athens, Greece WGT Desire Pearl Event- November 15-22, 2025 | — | ||||||
| 8/27/25 | Episode 139: Our Enneagram Coaching Session | In episode 136 Kel, from Expansive Connection Coaching explained all nine Enneagram personality types and motivations. Listen in on this real-time coaching session as Kel reveals the Enneagram results of Mr & Mrs Jones and helps them understand their types and how to better value and understand each other as life partners. Episode Resources: Books The Wisdom of the Enneagram by Don Richard Riso; Russ Hudson The Road Back to You by Ian Morgan Cron; Suzanne Stabile Podcast Series Enneagram 2.0 Websites Enneagram Institute The Narrative Enneagram Non-monogamy Coaching Expansive Connection | — | ||||||
| 8/14/25 | Episode 138: Describing the Lifestyle- Respectful, Pervy, Cool-Ass People | When we hear the word 'swinger' or 'lifestyle' the first time we may think of key parties, sleezy sex clubs, orgies with strangers and lots of perverted people who will have sex with anyone. With how non-monogamy is portrayed in some movies and television shows it's not surprising that many of us have this perception! During our most recent trip to Desire Riviera Maya we asked the couples to tell us how they would describe the world of non-monogamy to others and how that description has changed from their pre-lifestyle perceptions. | — | ||||||
| 7/31/25 | Episode 137: 'The Resort'- A New Concept for Lifestyle Vacationers | Join us as we chat with the founder of a brand new lifestyle vacation spot in Jamaica- 'The Resort.' This upscale venue gives lifestyle travelers an additional and much needed option for a sexy vacation as ethical non-monogamy becomes more mainstream around the world. Visit their website for more details and information about membership and booking! | — | ||||||
| 7/16/25 |  Episode 136: The Enneagram- Know Your Number! | Join us as Kel from Expansive Connection explains the Enneagram system which offers numerous benefits for personal and professional development by providing insights into motivations, behaviors, and relationships. It helps individuals understand their core personality type, strengths, weaknesses, and how they interact with others. This understanding can lead to improved self-awareness, better communication, stronger relationships, and a better connection with others in the lifestyle! Episode Resources: Books The Wisdom of the Enneagram by Don Richard Riso; Russ Hudson The Road Back to You by Ian Morgan Cron; Suzanne Stabile Podcast Series Enneagram 2.0 Websites Enneagram Institute The Narrative Enneagram Non-monogamy Coaching Expansive Connection | — | ||||||
| 7/9/25 | Episode 135: Origin Story- Going Deeper with Kurt & Vicki | This 'Origin Story' format episode features our friends Kurt & Vicki and highlights another unique journey into and through non-monogamy. Perhaps their story of working through issues will resonate with those who struggle with things from 'the past' and how previous life experiences can interfere with fully enjoying the lifestyle. Mentioned in this episode: We Gotta Thing Community Kasidie and SDC Club Sapphire | — | ||||||
| 6/27/25 |  Episode 134: Facing the "What-ifs" Fears of Non-monogamy | Are you considering trying non-monogamy or perhaps learning how to navigate the swinging lifestyle environment? Are you paralyzed by the 'what-ifs?' What if my partner falls in love with someone else? What if I get jealous? What if no one is attracted to me? What if we are outed at swingers? You are not alone! Jason from Expansive Connection joins Mr & Mrs Jones to discuss how to better understand and work through these common 'what-if' fears shared by but also overcome by many. | — | ||||||
| 6/20/25 | Episode 133: 10 Attributes of Successful Swingers | So you think you've got what it takes to be 'successful' in the swinging lifestyle? From our 11 years of experience, we share what we believe to be the most important attributes a person or couple must have to fully enjoy all the benefits of non-monogamy. We also announce the official opening of a new lifestyle resort in Jamaica simply called The Resort (and share a couple of sexy snaphots). Care to join us? | — | ||||||
| 5/28/25 |  Episode 132: Our Differences Make Us Better | Why do we usually react to the word 'different' as something negative? Our differences can help us to learn more about ourselves which can lead to individual growth as well as strengthen our relationships. Kel from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us this episode to help us understand how and why we react to something different and gives us tools to help explore them and turn those differences into opportunities for growth! | — | ||||||
| 5/14/25 | Episode 131: Finding Your Tribe in the We Gotta Thing Community | What makes the WGT community unique? We are not a dating site. We are not like a Facebook group. Nor are we similar to a Discord server, a Slack channel, a Zoom meeting or a WhatsApp conversation. What are we then? We are a community full of real people in real relationships who are looking to explore, learn, share and interact with others in a safe, non-judgmental and secure virtual environment. What will you gain in one year by joining us? Mastered Communication – You'll have developed unshakable confidence in open and honest conversations, leading to more trust, deeper intimacy, and fewer misunderstandings with your partner. A Thriving Support System – You'll be surrounded by a network of like-minded couples who truly get you, offering support, wisdom, and genuine friendship. No more feeling like you're navigating this journey alone. New & Exciting Experiences – Whether through online discussions, live events, or luxurious getaways, you'll have explored new facets of your relationship in a way that feels safe, sexy, and fulfilling. Personal & Relationship Growth – You'll have gained insights from other members and experts, engaged in transformative workshops, and overcome challenges that once seemed overwhelming. Living Authentically –No matter where you are in your journey, you'll feel empowered to embrace your desires and connections without fear or hesitation. Your relationship will be stronger, your connections deeper, and your confidence stronger than ever. Care to join us? Learn more about the We Gotta Thing community experience here! | — | ||||||
| 4/24/25 |  Episode 130: All About 'Swolly' Relationships | Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us to help define that 'squishy' term that is a result of some combination of 'swinging' and 'polyamory.' She then discusses pro's and con's of what to expect when creating your own brand of 'swolly' and then shares tips on how to successfully communicate and navigate along the way. Resources mentioned during this episode: Sex Nerd Sandra Podcast- The New Monogamy with Dr. Tammy Nelson The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Quiz | — | ||||||
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