About this episode

Chrissy Chlapecka joins the hosts to discuss femme topping and queer culture.

This episode is a POWER BOTTOM, listener! Chrissy Chlapecka is an enchanting musician, content creator, and activist that’s about to kick off a nation-wide tour, but today she’s returning to the apartment for some verse activity as an out-and-proud LESBIAN! We discuss topping as a high-femme lesbian, methods to approach that with your butch GF, overcoming comphet, and the best queer scenes across the US. Ashley power bottoms for the first time. Lizzy gets spat on. FOLLOW CHRISSY CHLAPECKA: She’s on tour! Get tickets in your city at: https://www.chrissychlapecka.com/shows-1 Listen to her new album: https://open.spotify.com/album/1fmhvHU2zF9Zcq4yibQMkh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chrissychlapecka/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chrissychlapecka Twitter: https://x.com/chrissychlapp FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/…

People in this episode

Hosts: Ashley Gavin, Lizzy Cassidy

Guest: Chrissy Chlapecka

Topics covered

• femme topping
• lesbian relationships
• queer culture
• activism
• musicians
• comedy

Keywords

• femme topping
• lesbian
• Chrissy Chlapecka
• queer scenes
• comedy podcast
• activism

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Studio71

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