We're Having Gay Sex
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Lesbianism Was NOT All Fun And Games For Nico Carney | WHGS 346
Oct 19, 2026
1h 12m 12s
Kylie Vincent’s Balance Beam to End MS | WHGS 345
Oct 12, 2026
1h 12m 03s
Taking Nudes At The Airport w/ Two Dykes and a Mic | WHGS 344
Oct 5, 2026
1h 15m 27s
The Dance World = Gay Paradise?? w/ Kiel Tutin | WHGS 343
Sep 28, 2026
1h 13m 47s
Madison Sinclair Gets Back At A Homophobe By Banging His Wife | WHGS 342
Sep 21, 2026
1h 15m 29s
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- 🇺🇸United States · Comedy InterviewsHOME#6735K to 186K
- 🇰🇷South Korea · Comedy Interviews#913K to 67K
- 🇧🇷Brazil · Comedy Interviews#269.1K to 48K
- 🇨🇦Canada · Comedy Interviews#572.1K to 11K
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| Date | Episode | Topics | Guests | Brands | Places | Keywords | Sponsor | Length | |
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| 10/19/26 | Lesbianism Was NOT All Fun And Games For Nico Carney | WHGS 346 | This episode is lively, listener! Nico Carney is a comedian, writer, and actor, whose new hour-long special ‘WEE LAD’ is now out on Youtube. We discuss the genders TikTok commenters assign us, straight men with masculine wives, and facing uncertainty before transition. Jen’s parents accidentally see way too much of Ashley’s boobs, Nico shares an insightful story about confronting people from your past, and Freddie talks about the similarities between sex and improv. FOLLOW NICO CARNEY @nicocarney Watch Nico’s Special WEE LAD: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7Zpx7zRgLs Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicocarney/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nicocarneycomedy Substack: https://substack.com/@nicocarney Tour Dates + Sets: https://linktr.ee/nicocarney FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW FREDDIE SHANEL @freddie.shanel1 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freddieshanel Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freddie.shanel1/ Mailing List and Shows: https://linktr.ee/freddieshanel SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/13Uhq9pO2Dx799YyWXZvB1?si=f33211ce2c1d4f12 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-having-gay-sex/id1505116116 Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/w7SSAfu1Qq4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 1h 12m 12s | ||||||
| 10/12/26 | Kylie Vincent’s Balance Beam to End MS | WHGS 345 | This episode is a homecoming, listener! Kylie Vincent is back on the pod to discuss her recent MS diagnosis and new show, Lesion Lady. During our catch up we discuss being a white woman with a cane, what your Sims worlds say about your childhood, and the pros and cons of visible vs. invisible disabilities. Ashley gets into her own journey with disability and accommodations, Kylie discusses becoming a bottom by medical necessity, and Jen pops in to discuss whether or not testicles can taste umami?! FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincenthasrisen TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincenthasrisen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/ Tour Dates + Sets: https://beacons.ai/kylievincent Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylierosevincent FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/13Uhq9pO2Dx799YyWXZvB1?si=f33211ce2c1d4f12 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-having-gay-sex/id1505116116 Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/-rHQQYdMPI8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 1h 12m 03s | ||||||
| 10/5/26 | Taking Nudes At The Airport w/ Two Dykes and a Mic | WHGS 344 | This episode is double-trouble, listener! McKenzie Goodwin and Rachel Scanlon are the two hilarious hosts of the hit queer podcast Two Dykes and a Mic. We discuss their “lesbian hive mind,” phone sex with your spouse, celesbians, and the art of taking nudes at the airport. Ashley has sex that jump starts her period, Rachel’s best laid plans for a romantic night in are foiled, and McKenzie has a bit of a sex toy mystery. FOLLOW TWO DYKES AND A MIC @twodykesandamic TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@twodykesandamic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/twodykesandamic/ Tour Dates + Podcast: https://twodykesandamic.com/ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TwoDykesAndAMic Check out Mckenzie’s Film: https://www.meetingmarsha.com/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/13Uhq9pO2Dx799YyWXZvB1?si=f33211ce2c1d4f12 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-having-gay-sex/id1505116116 Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/-rHQQYdMPI8 ______________________________________________ #comedy #standupcomedy #lesbian #gay #tiktok #lgbt #dating #bi #trans #nonbinary #enby Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 1h 15m 27s | ||||||
| 9/28/26 | The Dance World = Gay Paradise?? w/ Kiel Tutin | WHGS 343 | This episode is fascinating, listener! Kiel Tutin is a dancer, choreographer, and creative director who has been the visionary behind performances like BLACKPINK’s headlining Coachella set and The JLO Show: Live in Las Vegas. We discuss the policing of popstars, the perils (and benefits?) of reading the comments, and the joy that comes from seeing old people dance. Ashley’s plans get lost in translation at a Berlin FLINTA flat, and Lizzy tries to clock other guests at a straight wedding. Kiel shares his experience growing up and thriving in the ultra-accepting world of high level dance competitions. FOLLOW KIEL TUTIN @kieltutin TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kieltutin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kieltutin/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/13Uhq9pO2Dx799YyWXZvB1?si=f33211ce2c1d4f12 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-having-gay-sex/id1505116116 Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/-rHQQYdMPI8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 1h 13m 47s | ||||||
| 9/21/26 | Madison Sinclair Gets Back At A Homophobe By Banging His Wife | WHGS 342 | This episode is WILD, listener! Madison Sinclair is a comedian, writer (Comedy Central’s Roasts of Kevin Hart, Whitney Cummings, and Bert Kreischer), and CEO of The Bummer Shop, which sells booty shorts with sad facts. We discuss being “the man” in a femme for femme relationship, doing comedy with (and for) your dog, and the crime of being gay in the NFL. Ashley fumbles a flirtatious audience member after a show, and Lizzy gets kicked out of a timeshare presentation. Madison shares an iconic story about getting revenge on a homophobic comedian by sleeping with his ex…and there’s surprise knife play involved?! FOLLOW MADISON SINCLAIR @madisonsinclair 9/27 Live Taping Tickets: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/madison-sinclair-comedy-special-taping-tickets-1999318760232 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@madisoncomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madisonsinclair/ Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://madisonsinclair.org The Bummer Shop: https://thebummershop.com/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/13Uhq9pO2Dx799YyWXZvB1?si=f33211ce2c1d4f12 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-having-gay-sex/id1505116116 Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/-rHQQYdMPI8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 1h 15m 29s | ||||||
| 9/14/26 | We All Confront Each Other, & the WHGS Family May Never Recover… | WHGS 341 | Tensions are HIGH in this episode, listener! It’s a non-traditional WHGS family episode today, and it may be one of our most raw and emotional episodes to date… Joined by both our fantastic co-hosts and comedians Lizzy Cassidy and Ali Kolbert, it all gets laid bare: Ashley confronts Ali on why she’s so intimidating, Ali confronts Ashley on why she’s so intimidated, the room confronts Ashley and Jen on why they haven’t got married, and Lizzy confronts strangers about their children. In-between, we discuss novel approaches to giving head, energy patches, and going to the movies. And to top it all off, some devastating news is dropped that may change the WHGS family forever… FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alvrahas Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/alvrahas FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/ Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/-rHQQYdMPI8 ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get affordable and personalized treatment at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 1h 10m 39s | ||||||
| 9/7/26 | threesomesqueer culture+3 | Amelia Montooth | Mutuals MediaGaydar | — | threesomesPride+3 | — | 1h 12m 30s | ||
| 8/31/26 | open relationshipcomedy+4 | Edy Modica | YouTubeVEEPS+4 | — | open relationshipEdy Modica+5 | — | 1h 06m 01s | ||
| 8/24/26 | cult experiencesqueer dating+3 | Hannah Beck | Cross My Heart | — | cultqueer+5 | — | 1h 04m 59s | ||
| 8/17/26 | farewellstand-up comedy+4 | Maddie Wiener | Saturday Night Live | NYC | Maddie WienerAshley Gavin+5 | — | 1h 08m 34s | ||
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| 7/6/26 | relationship conflictlong-distance relationships+3 | Jen Davis | TikTokInstagram+4 | — | relationshipfight+4 | FACTORGAY50OFF | 1h 08m 20s | ||
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Chart history for We're Having Gay Sex
Peaked at #9 in South Korea, top 10 in 1 of 46 tracked markets, currently #9 in South Korea.
| Market | Genre | Peak | Current | Trend |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| South Korea | — | #9 | #9 | — |
| HU | — | #20 | #20 | — |
| AR | — | #21 | #21 | — |
| Brazil | — | #26 | #26 | — |
| MY | — | #31 | #31 | — |
| VN | — | #45 | #45 | — |
| Australia | — | #52 | #52 | — |
| Finland | — | #53 | #53 | — |
| PH | — | #56 | #56 | — |
| Canada | — | #57 | #57 | — |
| GR | — | #60 | #60 | — |
| IS | — | #61 | #61 | — |
| Germany | — | #62 | #62 | — |
| CL | — | #64 | #64 | — |
| United States | — | #67 | #67 | — |
| Norway | — | #68 | #68 | — |
| PT | — | #75 | #75 | — |
| France | — | #78 | #78 | — |
| New Zealand | — | #86 | #86 | — |
| South Korea | — | #93 | #93 | — |
Chart Positions
46 placements across 41 markets.
Chart Positions
46 placements across 41 markets.