Sofie Hagen is Stuck in a 10-Year Dry Spell | WHGS Ep. 315

About this episode

Sofie Hagen discusses her 10-year dry spell and the factors affecting it with hosts Ashley Gavin and Lizzy Cassidy.

This episode is DRY, listener! Sofie Hagen (Netflix, Fringe) is an award-winning Danish stand-up comedian, author, and podcaster that tours all around the world, but today they’re in the apartment for some SEX tourism because things have been dry! We discuss not having sex in 10+ years despite liking it, why that can be affected by the intersections of trauma, gender, and body image, and how you can absolutely positively FUMBLE the one opportunity to break said dry spell. Ashley gets called ugly. Lizzy prefers gay men. FOLLOW SOFIE HAGEN: See them live on her WORLD TOUR now! Get tickets at https://www.sofiehagen.com/ Listen to “Sofieland” NOW on all platforms: https://www.sofiehagen.com/sofieland Check out her books: https://www.sofiehagen.com/books Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sofiehagendk/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sofie.hagen FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok…

People in this episode

Hosts: Ashley Gavin, Lizzy Cassidy

Guest: Sofie Hagen

Topics covered

• dry spell
• sex tourism
• trauma
• gender
• body image
• comedy
• stand-up

Keywords

• dry spell
• Sofie Hagen
• comedy
• trauma
• gender
• body image
• sex tourism
• stand-up

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Netflix, Fringe, Sofieland, Sofie Hagen, Ashley Gavin, Lizzy Cassidy

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