About this episode

Nicole Byer and guest Makhyli discuss dating experiences, relationship challenges with BPD, and share horror stories from their dating lives.

Artist and actress Makhyli ( Boys World ) joins Nicole to chat about her experience dating while in a pop girl group. Makhyli shares how she literally created a "Build-A-Boy" slideshow presentation to manifest her current boyfriend - and it actually worked! The girls swap their worst car-date horror stories, from a guy so cheap he forced Makhyli to share a single McDonald's french fry, to a man who casually had rotting food in his backseat. Makhyli opens up about navigating relationship paranoia with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), and the two discuss tips they've picked up for dating with ADHD. Plus they chat about their love for the latest season of Love on the Spectrum . Makhyli's new single, I Need You (Cat and Mouse) is out now! Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at  https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast Take our listener survey  and shape the future of the podcast! Support this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsors: Jones Road : Use code DATEME at  jonesroadbeauty.com  to get a Free Shimmer Face Oil with your first purchase! #JonesRoadBeauty #ad Warby Parker : Our listeners can buy one prescription pair and get…

People in this episode

Host: Nicole Byer

Guest: Makhyli

Topics covered

• dating
• Borderline Personality Disorder
• ADHD
• relationship experiences
• pop culture
• horror stories

Keywords

• dating
• Borderline Personality Disorder
• ADHD
• relationship paranoia
• pop girl group
• horror stories
• Love on the Spectrum

Sponsors

Jones Road, Warby Parker, Lola Blankets

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Boys World

Products: I Need You (Cat and Mouse)

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