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- 🇺🇸US · Relationships#15300K to 1M
- 🇨🇦CA · Relationships#29100K to 300K
- 🇬🇧GB · Relationships#39100K to 300K
- 🇦🇺AU · Relationships#5930K to 100K
- 🇩🇪DE · Relationships#8030K to 100K
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309K to 983K🎙 Daily cadence·445 episodes·Last published 2d ago - Monthly Reach
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1.0M to 3.3M🇺🇸31%🇨🇦9%🇬🇧9%+41 more - Active Followers
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412K to 1.3M
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Creatively Building a Family (w/ Sabrina Jalees)
Jun 19, 2026
Unknown duration
Having A Self-Love Affair (w/ Jujubee)
Jun 12, 2026
48m 22s
Setting Relationship Boundaries (w/ Trixie Mattel)
Jun 5, 2026
1h 15m 24s
Measuring Love & Male Delusion (w/ Tracie Thoms)
May 29, 2026
52m 23s
Would You Date YOU? (w/ Relationship Therapist Esther Perel)
May 22, 2026
1h 06m 50s
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| 6/19/26 | ![]() Creatively Building a Family (w/ Sabrina Jalees) | Comedian Sabrina Jalees (Mating Season) returns to the podcast! Sabrina talks about how she and her wife made a family, including picking out a sperm donor and performing a home insemination using a dog catheter. They break down the recent news about websites hosting non-consensual "sleep content" and the terrible networks of men coaching each other on how to assault their partners. Sabrina shares her attempt at a magic trick proposal while her partner dealt with a bathroom emergency, and they discuss: Can 2 butches make a right? Plus, why we need to rethink how we speak about pregnancy loss, and Sabrina makes a strong case for freezing your eggs.Check out Mating Season on Netflix.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast by checking out our sponsors:• FirstLeaf: Get personalized wines, delivered. Head to TryFirstleaf.com/DATEME to sign up and you'll get 50% off your first box PLUS free shipping for an entire year• Cash App: Download Cash App Today: https://capl.onelink.me/vFut/3v6r90n6 #CashAppPod Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App’s bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. Cash App Visa® Debit Flex Cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC, and The Bancorp Bank, N.A., pursuant to a license from Visa U.S.A. Inc. See terms and conditions for the Sutton prepaid card, Sutton debit flex card, and Bancorp debit flex card. Discounts and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerThis is a Headgum podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | — | ||||||
| 6/12/26 | ![]() Having A Self-Love Affair (w/ Jujubee)✨ | self-loverelationships+4 | Jujubee | Stop! That! Train!MESS FOR YOU | — | self-loveJujubee+5 | Jones Road BeautyDATEME | 48m 22s | |
| 6/5/26 | ![]() Setting Relationship Boundaries (w/ Trixie Mattel)✨ | relationship boundariesdating reality TV+3 | Trixie Mattel | — | — | relationship boundariesTrixie Mattel+5 | Jones Road BeautyDATEME | 1h 15m 24s | |
| 5/29/26 | ![]() Measuring Love & Male Delusion (w/ Tracie Thoms)✨ | relationshipscommitment+3 | Tracie Thoms | RENTThe Devil Wears Prada 2 | — | RENTcommitment+4 | SquarespaceDATEME | 52m 23s | |
| 5/22/26 | ![]() Would You Date YOU? (w/ Relationship Therapist Esther Perel)✨ | relationshipstherapy+3 | Esther Perel | — | — | relationship therapydating challenges+3 | ChimeDATEME | 1h 06m 50s | |
| 5/15/26 | ![]() Writing Heated Rivalry (w/ Rachel Reid)✨ | queer romancewriting process+4 | Rachel Reid | Heated Rivalry | — | queer romanceHeated Rivalry+5 | FirstLeafDATEME | 47m 00s | |
| 5/8/26 | ![]() Farting All Night on a First Date (w/ Beck Bennett)✨ | datingrelationships+4 | Beck Bennett | SNLWhat's Our Podcast?+1 | — | first datefarting+3 | Jones Road BeautyDATEME | 51m 07s | |
| 5/1/26 | ![]() Pikachu, I Choose You! (w/ Sarah Natochenny)✨ | voice actingdating advice+4 | Sarah Natochenny | QuincePokémon | — | Sarah NatochennyNicole Byer+6 | Jones Road BeautyDATEME | 58m 37s | |
| 4/24/26 | ![]() Looksmaxxing Is Psychotic (w/ Tan France)✨ | fashionrelationships+4 | Tan France | Queer EyeHonorable Gays | — | Tan FranceNicole Byer+5 | Jones RoadDATEME | 1h 07m 48s | |
| 4/17/26 | ![]() Dating with Borderline Personality Disorder (w/ Makhyli)✨ | datingBorderline Personality Disorder+4 | Makhyli | I Need You (Cat and Mouse)Boys World | — | datingBorderline Personality Disorder+5 | Jones RoadDATEME | 59m 40s | |
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| 4/10/26 | ![]() Astrology's Effect in Relationships (w/ Nathan Mitchell)✨ | astrologyrelationships+3 | Nathan Mitchell | The BoysGinny & Georgia | — | astrologyrelationships+3 | Jones RoadDATEME | 45m 46s | |
| 4/3/26 | ![]() Life as a 90s Sex Symbol (w/ Danielle Fishel)✨ | 90s culturesex symbols+3 | Danielle Fishel | Boy Meets WorldGirl Meets World | — | Danielle Fishel90s sex symbol+3 | HelloFreshdateme10fm | 53m 04s | |
| 3/27/26 | ![]() There's a Yelp for BJs (w/ Drew Droege)✨ | relationshipscomedy+4 | Drew Droege | Search PartyBob's Burgers+1 | Los Angeles | blowjobsYelp+7 | Jones Road BeautyDATEME | 47m 55s | |
| 3/20/26 | ![]() Our Healthy Era (w/ Kym Whitley)✨ | healthdating+4 | Kym Whitley | — | — | hydrationexercise+3 | Jones Road BeautyDATEME | 53m 51s | |
| 3/13/26 | ![]() Having "The Body" (w/ Fantasia Royale Gaga)✨ | dating experiencestrans women+5 | Fantasia Royale Gaga | — | — | trans womendating+6 | Equipdateme | 48m 19s | |
| 3/6/26 | ![]() Being a Dom (w/ Sapphira Cristál)✨ | dominationimpact play+3 | Sapphira Cristál | Planned ParenthoodNOCD | — | dominationimpact play+5 | HelloFreshdateme10fm | 51m 00s | |
| 2/27/26 | ![]() Worst Hookup EVER (w/ Jasmine Masters)✨ | drag culturerelationships+3 | Jasmine Masters | — | — | Jasmine MastersDrag Race+3 | Cozy EarthDATEME | 46m 46s | |
| 2/20/26 | ![]() The Torture of Working with an Ex (w/ Nicholas Scheppard)✨ | breakuprelationships+3 | Nicholas Scheppard | Very Gay PaintArt to Me | — | breakupex-boyfriend+4 | MeUndiesDATEME | 49m 35s | |
| 2/13/26 | ![]() Celebrating Galentine's Day (w/ Sasheer Zamata) | Happy Galentine's Day! Comedian and best friend Sasheer Zamata (SNL, Best Friends) returns to the podcast to celebrate the most important relationship of all: female friendship. They do a quick catch up on Sasheer's love life, learn the origins and meaning behind Galentine's Day, and discuss the intimacy of female friendships that you just can't get from a romantic partner. They share some of their favorite Valentine's Day activities, and recount some of their recent dates together, including getting their tarot cards read, taking a jewelry making class and the time they got too high and went to Burger King.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastFollow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerNicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | — | ||||||
| 2/6/26 | ![]() I Want You to Watch (w/ Heidi N Closet) | Drag queen icon Heidi N Closet (RuPaul's Drag Race S12, All Stars 8) is dressed up like Jesse from Pokemon to geek out over her favorite anime and spill on her beef with Nicki Minaj. Heidi opens up about the rules that keep her open relationship working and shares stories from her pre-fame jobs, including the time she cleaned literal shit at a gas station and the reason she got fired from a hospital. They also discuss her favorite sex move called "The Finisher" and her love of being watched, while Nicole shares the time she sat on a man's face for money.Check out Heidi N Closet's YouTube channel: youtube.com/@HeidiNClosetOfficialWatch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsors:» HelloFresh: Go to HelloFresh.com/dateme10fm to Get 10 free meals + a FREE Zwilling Knife (a $144.99 value) on your third box. *Offer valid while supplies last. Free meals applied as discount on first box, new subscribers only, varies by plan.» Function: Own your health for $365 a yea. Learn more and join using my link. Visit functionhealth.com/DATEME and use gift code DATEME for a $25 credit toward your membership.» Planned Parenthood: Donate to support Planned Parenthood now at plannedparenthood.org/defend.» Squarespace: Head to squarespace.com/DATEME to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME.» NOCD: If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: learn.nocd.com/DATEME» Betterhelp: This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit betterhelp.com/dateme today to get 10% off your first month.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerNicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | — | ||||||
| 1/30/26 | ![]() Your Favorite Queen’s Favorite Seamstress (w/ Danny Godoy) | Designer and drag queen Danny Godoy is here! Known for creating iconic looks for queens like Bob the Drag Queen, Kim Chi, Kerri Colby, and more, Godoy talks about accidentally coughing and farting on Nicole, teaching her how to sew in a single day, and what happens at their drag queen craft nights.He shares the worst date of his life and explains why you should be keeping coconut oil in the bedroom. Nicole tells the details of her horrific dental drama.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsors:» Planned Parenthood: Donate to support Planned Parenthood now at plannedparenthood.org/defend.» Cozy Earth: Cozy pyjamas! Head to cozyearth.com and use my code DATEMEBOGO to get these pj’s for you and someone you love!» Equip: Learn more about Equip’s virtual eating disorder treatment at equip.health/datemeFollow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerNicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | — | ||||||
| 1/23/26 | ![]() Rolling Blunts for a Money Launderer (w/ Brooke Candy) | Rapper and songwriter Brooke Candy (host of Unwrapped) joins Nicole to discuss meeting her future husband in a desert shack and moving in with him after only a week. She shares the time her wig fell off mid-hookup, what made her go from open relationships to a monogamous one, and relationship texting styles.Brooke relives her jobs in the HUSTLER office, working as a stripper, and being a blunt-roller for a money laundering front. Plus, Nicole shares her theory on why she is murder-proof.Check out her podcast Unwrapped, with Nicole Byer.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsors:» Planned Parenthood: Donate to support Planned Parenthood now at plannedparenthood.org/defend.» Warby Parker: Our listeners get 15% off plus free shipping when they buy two or more pairs of prescription glasses at WarbyParker.com/DATEME — using our link helps support the show. #WarbyParker #adventure » Jones: Ready to quit for good? Go to quitwithjones.com/DATEME to start your personalized quitting journey and get 15% off with code DATEME.Squarespace: Head to squarespace.com/DATEME to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerNicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | — | ||||||
| 1/16/26 | ![]() Dating Your Competition on Drag Race (w/ Kori King) | Queen of Cameo and Drag Race S17 star Kori King joins Nicole to spill her experience finding love on the set of Drag Race. Kori opens up about her on-and-off-screen romance with Lydia B. Kollins, revealing the exact moment their romance turned real, and why opposites attract.She shares wild stories from her hustling days - from dealing with naked customers while managing a Walgreens, having a drunk mom lick her armpit during a drag show, and her journey beating Nikki Blonsky as the Queen of Cameo.Plus, Kori breaks down the relationship drama inside her colony of 20 guinea pigs, and tells the story of a crazy hookup who just wanted to be tied to a bed screaming for help for hours. It's a wild time.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsors:MeUndies: Make this Valentine's Day one to remember with matching underwear from MeUndies. To get exclusive deals up to 50% off, go to MeUndies.com/DATEME and enter promo code dateme.BetterHelp: BetterHelp makes it easy to get matched online with a qualified therapist. Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/dateme.IQBar: A delicious clean protein snack. Text DATE to 64000 to get 20% off all IQBAR products, plus FREE shipping. Message and data rates may apply.Function Health: Own your health for $365 a year. That’s a dollar a day. Visit functionhealth.com/dateme or use gift code DATEME25 for a $25 credit toward your membership.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerNicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | — | ||||||
| 1/9/26 | ![]() Getting Robbed by Hookups (w/ Lushious Massacr) | Drag queen icon Lushious Massacr joins Nicole to share how she fell in love last night with a man she met on Facebook Dating, getting charmed by a panty sniffer, and the reason she’s banned from Hinge and Tinder. She also breaks down how tapping into your feminine force is a superpower used to get exactly what you want.Lushious shares all of the terrible times men she's hooked up with who have tried to rob her, and how she's since learned to "trade proof" her home. Plus, Luscious explains her theory on why women pegging their men could lead to world peace, and shares advice on how to be proactive in order to create romance and charm in your everyday life.Watch Lushious's amazing YouTube show - DRAGVESTIGATIONS.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsors:NOCD: If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: learn.nocd.com/DATEMEWayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home.Honeylove: The best bras and shapewear on the market. Save 20% Off Honeylove by going to honeylove.com/DATEME! #honeylovepodFollow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerNicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | — | ||||||
| 1/2/26 | ![]() Addressing the Lies & Backlash (w/ Ginger Minj) | Drag queen icon Ginger Minj (Drag Race All Stars winner S10) joins Nicole to discuss the backlash she’s faced since winning the crown and addresses the "lying" accusations swirling around her - and why she’s done ignoring the drama. She opens up about losing 200 lbs this year, dealing with fans who still have nasty things to say about her body, and shares what it was like getting diagnosed with autism during her psychological review for All Stars.Plus, the wild details about her love life. Ginger talks about escaping a toxic 11-year relationship and finding happiness in a polyamorous throuple. She breaks down what it’s like living in a "Full House" situation with her husband, her boyfriend, her mom, her sister, and her nephew.Check out Ginger's upcoming movie, Stop! That! Train! releasing later this year.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsors:HelloFresh: Go to HelloFresh.com/dateme10fm to Get 10 free meals + a FREE Zwilling Knife (a $144.99 value) on your third box. *Offer valid while supplies last. Free meals applied as discount on first box, new subscribers only, varies by plan.Squarespace: Head to squarespace.com/DATEME to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME.Equip: Learn more about Equip’s virtual eating disorder treatment at equip.health/datemeFollow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerNicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | — | ||||||
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50 placements across 44 markets.
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50 placements across 44 markets.

