About this episode

This episode explores weaponized incompetence and its impact on responsibilities, while also celebrating Black History Month and discussing self-care tips.

In this episode of Conversations with Toi, I'm diving into the concept of weaponized incompetence—calling out the ways people use it to dodge responsibilities and how we can set better boundaries. We'll also touch on celebrating Black History Month, sharing clear Valentine's Day wishes with your partner, self-care tips for anyone flying solo, and a quick update on my latest adventures with my Hatch. Plus, I sprinkled in some thoughts on how big cultural moments—like 50 Cent's Super Bowl DoorDash commercial—get us all talking about what really matters in our relationships and our communities Follow me on all socials as Toitimeblog and on the blog itself, www.toitime.org Not to mention make sure you follow my self care journey on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@toitimeblog

Topics covered

• weaponized incompetence
• boundaries
• self-care
• relationships
• cultural moments

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