S22E14: Bringing The Magic Back To Dating
About this episode
The episode discusses the balance between spontaneity and strategy in modern dating.
We've gotten so good at being intentional about dating, but in the process we've lost the magic. Today we're discussing how dating isn’t just about waiting for sparks or optimizing every move –it’s about finding the balance between the two. We dive into the tension between chasing serendipity and over-strategizing your love life, why leaning too far in either direction can leave you feeling stuck or unfulfilled, and how to see where you fall on the serendipity to strategy scale to create space for both spontaneity and purpose, Enjoy! ---- Take our Dating Archetypes quiz: https://howtobedateable.com/ Read our book: How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide To Finding Your Person and Falling in Love: https://howtobedateable.com/ Try the Dateable AI Dating Coach: Get personalized advice trained on our years of podcast episodes, courses and frameworks: https://studio.com/dateable Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcasts The Psychology of Relationships and Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon &…
People in this episode
Hosts: Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick
Topics covered
- dating
- relationships
- serendipity
- strategy
- self-improvement
Keywords
- dating
- relationships
- serendipity
- strategy
- self-improvement
- love
- dating archetypes
Sponsors
Avocado Green Mattress, Brick
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: Dateable
Products: Dateable AI Dating Coach, Brick
Books & works: How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide To Finding Your Person and Falling in Love
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