253. How The Creator of Burned Haystack Method Found Love on Hinge w/ Dr. Jennie Young

About this episode

Talia Koren chats with Dr. Jennie Young about her dating method, personal success, and insights on dating challenges.

I'm chatting with Dr. Jennie Young , creator of the Burned Haystack Dating Method and author of the brand-new book Burn the Haystack , on round two! This time, we're getting into everything from her own success story to how to spot toxic dating coaches to why the "ick" deserves way more credit than it gets. Jennie also breaks down how she uses Burn the Haystack beyond the apps, the rhetorical patterns that didn't make it into the book, and the exact opening prompt that reveals her matches political affiliation 99% of the time. At the end, we tackle a dating dilemma about a woman two and a half months into a relationship with a really nice guy she just isn't falling for. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Listen to our first conversation about Burned Haystack Read Jennie's Substack THANKS TO OUR PARTNERS Factor:  Get 50 percent off and free breakfast for a year!  factormeals.com/di50off Boll & Branch:  Get 15% off the softest bedding at  bollandbranch.com/dating Wayfair:  Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less.  wayfair.com CONNECT WITH ME: ⁠Ask a question for me to answer on the pod⁠ ⁠Slide into my DMs on IG…

People in this episode

Host: Talia Koren

Guest: Dr. Jennie Young

Topics covered

• dating methods
• toxic dating coaches
• relationship advice
• dating dilemmas
• Hinge dating

Keywords

• Burned Haystack Method
• Hinge
• toxic dating coaches
• dating advice
• relationship dilemmas

Sponsors

Factor, Boll & Branch, Wayfair

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Burn the Haystack

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