175. How to Be More Confident Spending Time Alone | 5 Things That Changed How I Think About Loneliness

175. How to Be More Confident Spending Time Alone | 5 Things That Changed How I Think About Loneliness

August 19, 2026 · 48 min

About this episode

Michela Allocca shares her personal journey with loneliness and offers five insights to help listeners feel more confident spending time alone.

If you've ever felt like a loser for not having Friday night plans or like a "weirdo" for spending too much time alone...this episode is for you. I'll walk through my story first, including the impulsive cross-country move that made my loneliness worse instead of better (IYKYK), and then break down the 5 things that made me feel more confident in being alone and how you can apply them to your life too. Topics covered: 👉🏻 Why moving into my first solo apartment in 2023 sent me into a spiral 👉🏻 The real reason I moved from LA to Chicago, and why it backfired completely 👉🏻 Why you have to stop waiting for your life to start 👉🏻 How to build a life you're actually excited to participate in 👉🏻 Why you need to stop living your life through somebody else's eyes 👉🏻 The difference between loneliness and solitude Referenced in this episode: 👉🏻 153: How to Make Friends as an Adult — https://youtu.be/H2FA7uTSL1w 👉🏻 110: Living Alone Without Feeling Lonely | How to Build Confidence by Doing Things Alone — https://youtu.be/0rmaioROGcI GET THE NEW PRODUCTIVITY PLANNER! 👉🏻 https://breakyourbudget.com/productivity-planner Subscribe to the Beyond Your Budget Substack…

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