Why School Quietly Fills Your Child’s Stress Cup (And Most Adults Miss It) | Emotional Dysregulation | E407

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Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge explains how school contributes to children's stress and emotional dysregulation, leading to meltdowns at home.

Ever wonder why your child melts down after a “good” day? Understanding why school quietly fills your child’s stress cup reveals how hidden stress builds all day. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, expert in Regulation First Parenting™, shows how to calm dysregulation at its source. Ever wonder why your child falls apart the second they get home—even after a “good” day? Understanding why school quietly fills your child’s stress cup helps you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface. It’s not misbehavior—it’s a nervous system that’s run out of capacity. When we calm the brain first, we can finally decode what those after-school meltdowns are trying to tell us. Why does my child melt down right after school even if nothing went wrong? You’re not imagining it—and you’re definitely not alone. After-school meltdowns aren’t about what just happened… they’re about everything that built up all day. Your child’s nervous system has a limited capacity. Every demand, transition, and social moment adds a “drop” to their stress cup. By the time they get home? It’s overflowing. Meltdowns = nervous system overflow , not bad behavior Home feels safe , so emotions finally release “Good at…

People in this episode

Host: Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge

Topics covered

• emotional dysregulation
• stress management
• parenting strategies
• child behavior
• nervous system
• after-school meltdowns

Keywords

• stress cup
• dysregulation
• child behavior
• nervous system
• parenting
• after-school meltdowns

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