140. What Not to Wear: The “Perfectly” Good | Clear Your Closet of “Shoulds” to Thrive

About this episode

Laurie discusses the reasons midlife women struggle to clear their wardrobes of outdated items due to societal and familial pressures.

Let me tell you what I hear from women like you, like me, all the time: “I really should get rid of some things … old things, outdated things." And the brain's knee-jerk response? “But they’re perfectly good.” Talk about an energy drain! Here, Laurie explores the deeper reasons midlife women keep wardrobes in frustrating limbo: inherited scarcity messages, Depression- and wartime-thrift values passed down through families … 1950s and 1960s gender norms that praised female self-denial, and the...

People in this episode

Host: Laurie Adams

Topics covered

• wardrobe decluttering
• midlife women
• self-denial
• scarcity messages
• gender norms

Keywords

• wardrobe
• declutter
• midlife
• scarcity
• gender norms
• self-improvement
• clothing

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