#410: Tim Fletcher - Trauma Expert: Reveals Why 80% Of Us Have THIS Type of Trauma

#410: Tim Fletcher - Trauma Expert: Reveals Why 80% Of Us Have THIS Type of Trauma

March 20, 2026 · 1h 3m

About this episode

Tim Fletcher discusses the intersection of Complex Trauma with addiction and mental health, exploring its effects and the healing process.

Tim Fletcher is a pioneer in the Addictions and Complex Trauma field. After 30+ years of helping others as a pastor, his own trauma recovery and work in addictions treatment led him to recognize how deeply Complex Trauma intersects with addiction, mental health, behaviour, and coping. In this episode, we discuss: 0:00 What People Misunderstand About Trauma 3:02 How Childhood Safety and Attachment Shape Trauma 6:33 Is the Psychiatric Definition of Trauma Too Narrow? 7:49 Why Trauma Makes People Feel “Something Is Wrong With Me” 9:29 How Childhood Experiences Shape Self-Worth 15:08 People Pleasing as Trauma Responses 16:46 Can You Rediscover Your True Self After Trauma? 21:22 Understanding the Healing Process for Trauma 26:49 Narcissistic Family Systems and Complex Trauma 30:36 Betrayal Trauma in Families and Relationships 34:32 Why Some People Develop Trauma Responses and Others Don’t 40:28 Emotionally Unavailable Parents and Attachment Patterns 42:06 Why People Attract Narcissistic Partners 48:51 The Narcissistic Relationship Cycle (Warning Signs) 52:55 Gaslighting and Narcissistic Manipulation 55:08 Starting the Healing Journey From Complex Trauma 58:21 What Actually Helps…

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