“Doubt: The Beginning of How to Think” with Darls Centola (GWTW885)

About this episode

Darls Centola discusses her memoir and the journey of self-discovery through writing and personal experiences.

How do you grapple with resistance when writing about personal stories from your past? As today’s guest learned, “When you get to the pain, slow down.” Darls Centola is a psychotherapist, educator, and author of Finding Truth with Michael: A Memoir of Friendship, Faith, and First Love .” In our conversation, Darls shares stories from her book including what it was like growing up as a Jehovah’s Witness in 1970s Los Angeles, being friends with Michael Jackson, and how her sister got them enrolled in a prestigious private school where they met the Jacksons. She also talks about her curiosity with neurobiology, the many paths she took to discover her calling, seeing people as they are, how doubt was the beginning of how to think, learning to listen to herself, and healing her relationship with her mother. Darls also provides practical advice on writing, discovering her adult voice, and how she worked on her craft in workshops and with coaches. Show Links Darls Centola, LCSW Finding Truth with Michael: A Memoir of Friendship, Faith, and First Love by Darls Centola The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der…

People in this episode

Guest: Darls Centola

Topics covered

• writing
• personal stories
• neurobiology
• self-discovery
• healing relationships
• memoir

Keywords

• doubt
• writing advice
• Jehovah's Witness
• neurobiology
• memoir
• personal growth
• healing

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Finding Truth with Michael: A Memoir of Friendship, Faith, and First Love, The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma, The Emerald Tablet: Alchemy of Personal Transformation, The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks and Win Your Inner Creative Battles

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