122: Can you change who you’re attracted to? w/ Annie Lord

122: Can you change who you’re attracted to? w/ Annie Lord

July 21, 2026 · 1h 7m

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Annie Lord discusses changing romantic attractions and ideals with hosts Ash and Moya.

Former Vogue agony aunt Annie Lord joins Ash and Moya to talk about what happens if you let go of your ‘type’ and allow your romantic ideals to change. Her debut novel, The Project , is out now. (NB: Annie recommends Sharon Olds’ poetry collection Stag’s Leap.) Plus: advice for a man who’s feeling romantically jaded. Send us your dilemmas: ifispeak@novaramedia.com Music by Matt Huxley.

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