If I Speak
by Novara Media
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132: Is there such a thing as healthy competition?
Oct 13, 2026
1h 00m 53s
131: Is there an upside to AI-generated porn?
Oct 6, 2026
1h 14m 17s
130: The inconvenient truth about convenience culture
Sep 29, 2026
59m 27s
129: How did the pandemic change you?
Sep 22, 2026
1h 01m 41s
128: Does a widening income gap spell trouble between friends?
Sep 15, 2026
1h 00m 31s
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- 🇬🇧United Kingdom · RelationshipsHOME#1414K to 89K
- 🇰🇷South Korea · Relationships#93.0K to 19K
- 🇪🇸Spain · Relationships#58561 to 3.5K
- 🇬🇷GR · Relationships#23187 to 1.2K
- 🇯🇵Japan · Relationships#141134 to 839
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| Date | Episode | Topics | Guests | Brands | Places | Keywords | Sponsor | Length | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 10/13/26 | 132: Is there such a thing as healthy competition? | After quitting Instagram, Moya wonders if the concept of ‘healthy competition’ is a myth, and Ash explains how to hate with artistry. Plus: Taylor Swift chat (for the first 8 minutes, be warned!) and advice for a couple in a longterm sex drought. Send us your dilemmas: [email protected] Music by Matt Huxley. | 1h 00m 53s | ||||||
| 10/6/26 |  131: Is there an upside to AI-generated porn? | Ash and Moya talk about porn, sex work, desire, ‘duty sex’ and more in a conversation sparked by a mystery question. Is AI-generated porn driving viewers to more extreme content? Has OnlyFans made it harder to be a woman on the internet? Plus: advice for a bisexual woman who’s got history with her new housemate. CN: This episode contains mentions of child sexual abuse at 18m and 23m. Watch Ash’s interview with Patricia Nilsson, author of Guilty Pleasure: https://novara.media/patricia Send us your dilemmas: [email protected] Music by Matt Huxley. | 1h 14m 17s | ||||||
| 9/29/26 | 130: The inconvenient truth about convenience culture | Moya and Ash get their nerd on with a conversation about the rise of convenience and the loss of enchantment. How can we access feelings of wonder in a world of quick fixes? Is friction the spice of life? (With reference to LOTR, Jaws and Tony Stark.) Plus: when a so-called friend can’t do the bare minimum. The book Moya mentions is Gabe Bullard’s Against Convenience. Send us your dilemmas: [email protected] Music by Matt Huxley. | 59m 27s | ||||||
| 9/22/26 | 129: How did the pandemic change you? | What if we still haven’t processed what the pandemic did to us? Was Covid a permanent turning point for our social lives and mental health? Ash and Moya identify an ongoing yearning for connection amid the scare stories and the manic bounceback. Plus: is it your fault you’re still single? Send us your dilemmas: [email protected] Music by Matt Huxley. | 1h 01m 41s | ||||||
| 9/15/26 | 128: Does a widening income gap spell trouble between friends? | Moya and Ash think about how money changes our priorities. Should rich friends should pay for their poor friends? And how do income gaps affect our romantic relationships? Plus: what to do when your partner reveals an addiction. Get tickets for Ash at the Southbank Centre on 26 September: https://www.southbankcentre.co.uk/whats-on/ash-sarkar-the-future-of-relationships Send us your dilemmas: [email protected] Music by Matt Huxley. | 1h 00m 31s | ||||||
| 9/8/26 | friendshiplove+5 | — | Novara MediaThe Guardian+2 | — | friendshiplove+5 | — | 1h 04m 34s | ||
| 8/18/26 | anxietyrelationships+3 | Ash | Southbank CentreVespers+1 | — | anxietyfight-or-flight response+5 | — | 51m 32s | ||
| 8/11/26 | hyper-consumerismpolitical crises+3 | — | Vulture | Southbank CentreVespers | consumerismpolitics+4 | — | 1h 01m 39s | ||
| 8/4/26 | attention economyreading habits+5 | Ash | Southbank CentreVespers | — | attention economyreading habits+6 | — | 59m 47s | ||
| 7/28/26 | rejectionrelationships+3 | — | Southbank CentreBernie Grant Arts Centre | North London | rejectionjobs+5 | — | 1h 06m 47s | ||
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| 7/21/26 | attractionromantic ideals+3 | Annie Lord | VogueThe Project+1 | — | attractionromantic ideals+5 | — | 1h 07m 07s | ||
| 7/14/26 | height-shamingmale self-image+3 | — | Novara Media | — | height-shamingmen+4 | — | 1h 02m 26s | ||
| 7/7/26 | relationshipsmoving+4 | — | Reformbig tech | — | suburbsrelationships+4 | — | 57m 04s | ||
| 6/30/26 | forgivenessrelationships+3 | — | Novara Media | Sheffield | forgivenessrelationships+4 | — | 1h 04m 34s | ||
| 6/23/26 | wedding etiquettehen party+3 | — | Novara Media | Sheffield | hen partywedding etiquette+3 | — | 55m 56s | ||
| 6/16/26 | 117: Is screen addiction ruining our connection to art? | * We’ll be at Crossed Wires festival in Sheffield on 4th July! Final tickets: https://crossedwires.live * Moya has a big theory about why wealthy elites seem to have stopped caring about culture, which leads to wondering if addiction and dependency are the best framework for understanding modern society. Plus: when you’re body-shamed by a much younger hook-up. Send us your dilemmas: [email protected] Music by Matt Huxley. | 1h 03m 53s | ||||||
| 6/9/26 | 116: I can’t stop worrying about money. Is there a way out? | * Come to see us at Crossed Wires in Sheffield on 4th July! https://crossedwires.live * Moya tunes into the background hum of money worries. Does our upbringing predict our attitude to finances? And does more money always equal more freedom? Plus: when to let go of a long-term romantic hangup. Send us your dilemmas: [email protected] Music by Matt Huxley. | 1h 08m 38s | ||||||
| 6/2/26 | 115: Help! My partner has been hiding huge debts from me | * Come to see us at Crossed Wires in Sheffield on 4th July! https://crossedwires.live * Ash talks to Moya about falling birth rates and the ‘crisis of association’ that’s stopping people from connecting with each other. It’s a big theory that touches on trust issues, getting offline and the coming backlash. Plus: a dilemma about financial infidelity. (Sorry about the banging. It’s builders outside Ash’s window.) Send us your dilemmas: [email protected] Music by Matt Huxley. | 1h 01m 47s | ||||||
| 5/26/26 | 114: Why we can’t let go of the girl boss | The girl boss is back – and this time she’s working class, mixed race and fully therapised. Moya asks Ash how we should make sense of Skims entrepreneur Emma Grede and the success of her book, Start With Yourself. Plus: which fantasy archetype are you? Come to see us at Crossed Wires in Sheffield on 4th July! Tickets available here: https://crossedwires.live Send us your dilemmas: [email protected] Music by Matt Huxley. | 54m 48s | ||||||
| 5/19/26 | 113: Should I go ‘no contact’ with my parents? | Moya and Ash answer a mystery question about why so many people are going ‘no contact’ with their parents. How do our elders understand this epidemic of estrangement? Plus: How to deal with a jealous ex-boyfriend who lives down the road. Come to see us at Crossed Wires in Sheffield on 4th July! Tickets available here: https://crossedwires.live Send us your dilemmas: [email protected] Music by Matt Huxley. | 1h 03m 18s | ||||||
| 5/12/26 | 112: Should you chase a holiday romance? | Ash went to the Songkran water fight in Thailand and now has a few questions about health and safety culture. Where do we draw the line between personal safety and freedom to take risks? Plus: should you chase a holiday romance? Come to see us at Crossed Wires in Sheffield on 4th July! Tickets available here: https://crossedwires.live Send us your dilemmas: [email protected] Music by Matt Huxley. | 48m 40s | ||||||
| 5/5/26 | 111: Do we need more women mentors? | Ash and Moya are reunited and ready to answer a mystery question, inspired by Lena Dunham’s memoir Famesick: do we need more women mentors? Plus: a homesick ex-pat struggling to stay in contact with his family. Come to see us at Crossed Wires in Sheffield on 4th July! Tickets available now: https://crossedwires.live Send us your dilemmas: [email protected] Music by Matt Huxley. | 1h 01m 41s | ||||||
| 4/28/26 | 110: How Andrew Tate poisoned a generation of young men w/ Jamie Tahsin and Matt Shea | With the manosphere back in the headlines, we’re republishing our 2024 interview with the authors of Clown World – the book that exposed Andrew Tate’s cult-like grip on young men around the world. Jamie Tahsin and Matt Shea explain how they infiltrated Tate’s inner circle and what they found inside. Ash and Moya will be back from their well-earned break next week. Send us dilemmas: [email protected] Remember our show in Sheffield is coming up on 4th July. Tickets: https://crossedwires.live Music by Matt Huxley. | 1h 11m 59s | ||||||
| 4/21/26 | 109: How can I tell my parents I’m a stripper? Your dilemmas solved w/ Shon Faye | Moya answers your dilemmas with former Vogue agony aunt Shon Faye. Featuring: a graduate abroad who might have a saviour complex; a gay man who doesn’t know if his relationship is real; a stripper who wants to tell her parents the truth; and a relationship breaking down over Israel. Plus: how does Shon always hit her deadlines? Follow Shon on Substack: https://shonfaye.substack.com/ Got a dilemma? Email [email protected] Join us at Crossed Wires festival in Sheffield on 4th July! https://crossedwires.live/ Music by Matt Huxley. | 1h 14m 35s | ||||||
| 4/14/26 | 108: Is it time to quit your job? w/ William Rayfet Hunter | Moya is joined by doctor-turned-novelist William Hunter to talk about what it takes to abandon your career for something new. What are the signs it’s time for a change? What if you quit everything but still feel bad inside? Plus: what to do about bigoted tweets from the past. Will’s debut novel Sunstruck is out in paperback on 25th June. Got a dilemma? Email [email protected] Join us at Crossed Wires festival in Sheffield on 4th July! https://crossedwires.live/ Music by Matt Huxley. | 1h 01m 24s | ||||||
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Chart history for If I Speak
Peaked at #9 in South Korea, top 10 in 1 of 25 tracked markets, currently #9 in South Korea.
| Market | Genre | Peak | Current | Trend |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| South Korea | — | #9 | #9 | — |
| United Kingdom | — | #14 | #14 | — |
| GR | — | #23 | #23 | — |
| Spain | — | #58 | #58 | — |
| Ireland | — | #61 | #61 | — |
| Denmark | — | #70 | #70 | — |
| IS | — | #74 | #74 | — |
| NG | — | #76 | #76 | — |
| MY | — | #81 | #81 | — |
| AT | — | #84 | #84 | — |
| New Zealand | — | #89 | #89 | — |
| CZ | — | #100 | #100 | — |
| TH | — | #128 | #128 | — |
| South Korea | — | #132 | #132 | — |
| Japan | — | #141 | #141 | — |
| South Africa | — | #141 | #141 | — |
| HU | — | #150 | #150 | — |
| Finland | — | #165 | #165 | — |
| Netherlands | — | #166 | #166 | — |
| Norway | — | #168 | #168 | — |
Chart Positions
25 placements across 23 markets.
Chart Positions
25 placements across 23 markets.