Intention Matters More Than Words

Intention Matters More Than Words

June 29, 2026 · 15 min · Episode 323

About this episode

Dr. Margaret Paul discusses the importance of intentions in relationships and how they affect communication and connection.

Control creates stress, while being open to learning creates safety. Control blocks connection, while learning invites it. In today’s episode, Dr. Margaret Paul dives into the topic of intentions and how we can become more aware of the intentions we bring into our relationships. She highlights the two core intentions we can choose from—to control or to love—and how that choice shapes the quality of our connection with others. She walks through how intentions show up in the way we communicate, how they impact our relationships, and why it’s important to be clear about whether we are seeking help, understanding, or simply compassion. Dr. Paul also explores the power of active listening and how it helps create the safety and openness that allow genuine connection to flourish. Join Dr. Margaret Paul on the Inner Bonding podcast and discover how shifting your intention can transform the way you communicate, connect, and love. Enjoy the podcast? Subscribe and leave a 5-star review! About Dr. Margaret Paul Dr. Margaret Paul, PhD, is a bestselling author, relationship expert, and the co-creator of the Inner Bonding® self-healing process. She is the author and co-author of twelve books…

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