About this episode

Joel and guests discuss first loves, messy feelings, and the complexities of relationships.

This week, Joel and guests—Langston Kerman, Roz Hernandez, and Jenny Zigrino—come in hot with the topic of first loves, and messy but real feelings they come with. They get into hooking up on the road—from offering to fly someone out just to get ghosted, to surprise homemade lube—the cities that want them the most, Big Girl Wednesday, and the many shades of polyamory. Send in your own listener questions by emailing us at intimacycoordinatorpod@gmail.com or leave us a voicemail at ‪(213) 379-9851‬‪. Subscribe to SmartLess Media on YouTube for full episodes, and follow @intimacycoordinatorshow on Instagram and TikTok for clips. Joel Kim Booster: @ihatejoelkim · Loot Season 3 (Apple TV+), Fire Island (Hulu), Psychosexual (Netflix) Langston Kerman: @langstonkerman · Netflix special Bad Poetry; The Boys; podcast My Momma Told Me Roz Hernandez: @rozhernandez · host of Ghosted! (Exactly Right); Living for the Dead (Hulu) Jenny Zigrino: @jennyzigrino · Fifty Shades of Black; Bad Santa 2 Produced by Brian Baldinger and Anne Harris. Associate Producers are Maddie McCann and Katherine Calligori. Editor is Jacob Vaus. Executive Producers are Will Arnett, Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes, Robert…

People in this episode

Host: Joel Kim Booster

Guests: Langston Kerman, Roz Hernandez, Jenny Zigrino

Topics covered

• first loves
• messy feelings
• hooking up
• polyamory
• listener questions

Keywords

• first loves
• messy feelings
• hooking up
• polyamory
• listener questions
• comedy podcast

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: SmartLess Media

Books & works: Loot Season 3, Fire Island, Psychosexual, Bad Poetry, Ghosted!, Living for the Dead, Fifty Shades of Black, Bad Santa 2

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