About this episode

The episode discusses the complexities of dating multiple people and the etiquette involved, featuring insights from comedians and a reality dating star.

This week, Joel is joined by comedians Dylan Adler and Liza Treyger, plus reality dating star Harry Jowsey, fresh off his run on Netflix’s Let’s Marry Harry. They dig into what it’s actually like to date multiple people at once—how to do it without hurting anyone, and the strange etiquette of a house full of women all trying to get ready for dates on the same schedule. Harry shares stories from filming, including the small red flags that got contestants cut and what changed being the center of the show for the first time. The group also gets into resetting boundaries, jealousy, and what makes someone stand out when everyone in the room is already good-looking. Send in your own listener questions by emailing us at intimacycoordinatorpod@gmail.com or leave us a voicemail at ‪(213) 379-9851‬‪. Subscribe to SmartLess Media on YouTube for full episodes, and follow @intimacycoordinatorshow on Instagram and TikTok for clips. Joel Kim Booster: @ihatejoelkim · Loot Season 3 (Apple TV+), Fire Island (Hulu), Psychosexual (Netflix) Harry Jowsey: @harryjowsey · Let’s Marry Harry (Netflix) · The Mob (Upcoming on Hulu) · Perfect Match Season 2 (Netflix) Dylan Adler: @dylanadler_ · On Tour ·…

People in this episode

Host: Joel Kim Booster

Guests: Liza Treyger, Dylan Adler, Harry Jowsey

Topics covered

• dating
• relationships
• reality TV
• boundaries
• jealousy
• comedy

Keywords

• dating multiple people
• relationship etiquette
• reality dating
• jealousy
• boundaries
• comedy podcast

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Netflix, SmartLess Media

Products: Let’s Marry Harry, Fire Island, Psychosexual, Survival of the Thickets, That’s Messed Up Podcast, Shanked, Perfect Match Season 2, The Mob

Places: The Elysian Theater

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