59. What's Really Driving You with Vic O'Farrell

About this episode

Vic O'Farrell explores the core values that drive behavior and the importance of self-awareness in this solo episode.

In this solo episode of It Starts With YOU , Vic O'Farrell builds on the "layers of the onion" and gets to the heart of what really drives your behaviour, your core values. Vic breaks down how what you think matters, like money or success, is often just the surface, and how digging deeper reveals the real drivers like freedom, security, or safety. She also explores boundaries, the ones you know you have and the ones you don't, and how rigid boundaries around your values can be the real reason you feel triggered in certain situations. This episode is a simple but powerful invitation to pause, reflect, and build self awareness, because when you understand what's really driving you, you can respond differently, and that changes everything. . "It Starts with You" podcast is available everywhere on Wednesdays every fortnight. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a rating and review! Thank you, Vic. Let's Connect! Follow Vic O'Farrell via the Queen of Behaviours Instagram - @vicofarrell LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoriaofarrell/ Email – hello@queenofbehaviours.com Website - www.queenofbehaviours.com Work with Vicky Showreel…

People in this episode

Host: Vic O'Farrell

Topics covered

• core values
• self awareness
• behavior drivers
• boundaries
• personal growth

Keywords

• behavior
• core values
• self awareness
• boundaries
• personal growth
• freedom
• security
• safety

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