You Can’t Make Someone Love You

About this episode

Jillian discusses the painful truth about chasing unrequited love and the importance of choosing oneself.

You can’t convince someone to love you—and the more you try, the more you lose yourself. In this episode, Jillian breaks down the painful truth about chasing someone who won’t choose you, and why holding on hurts more than letting go. She shares how to recognize when a relationship has run its course, how to stop overgiving in situationships, and what it really means to choose yourself. If you’ve been stuck hoping someone will change their mind, this is the shift you need to finally move forward. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com…

People in this episode

Host: Jillian Turecki

Topics covered

• love
• relationships
• self-acceptance
• letting go
• overgiving
• personal growth

Keywords

• love
• relationships
• self-love
• letting go
• situationships
• limerence
• personal growth

Sponsors

QCODE

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Daylight Media

Products: It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life

More episodes of Jillian on Love

• The Sign It's Time To Let Them Go · June 8, 2026 · 42 min
• Stop Abandoning Yourself for Unavailable People · June 1, 2026 · 40 min
• The 5 Red and Green Flags You Can’t Ignore · May 25, 2026 · 45 min
• Why You Stay Attached To Someone Unavailable · May 18, 2026 · 31 min
• Why Dating Feels Emotionally Exhausting · May 11, 2026 · 33 min
• 5 Reasons You Feel “Chemistry” With the Wrong Person · May 4, 2026 · 31 min