About this episode

Jillian discusses how attachment styles do not define one's identity and offers insights on overcoming relationship anxiety.

Have you ever wondered if you'll always struggle with relationship anxiety? If you've convinced yourself that anxious attachment is simply who you are, this episode is for you. Jillian unpacks why your attachment style isn't your identity, how the stories you tell yourself can keep you stuck, and why feeling anxious in love doesn't mean you're broken. You'll learn how your past, your environment, and even what's happening outside your relationship can shape your experience—and what you can do to build lasting security from the inside out. PRE ORDER MY NEW BOOK!!! https://www.jillianturecki.com/book  Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian  Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com&nbsp…

People in this episode

Host: Jillian Turecki

Topics covered

• attachment style
• relationship anxiety
• self-identity
• emotional security
• personal growth

Keywords

• attachment style
• relationship anxiety
• self-identity
• emotional security
• personal growth
• Jillian Turecki
• love

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Organizations: Daylight Media

Products: It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life, limerence workbook

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