About this episode

Dr. Morgan Cutlip discusses the impact of the mental load on marriage and sex life, offering insights on how couples can share responsibilities better.

We love our listeners and we want to know more about you! Please take 3 minutes to fill out this survey to share who you are & how you engage with the advertisers you hear on the show! Ever feel like you’re carrying the invisible to-do list for your entire household? Tune in as Dr. Morgan Cutlip joins us to unpack the mental load in marriage- why it causes so much tension and how couples can start sharing it better to make sex great again! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: The Better Share Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself The Flirtation Experiment ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Opening and setup — 0:00–1:12 Sponsor break and guest intro — 1:12–2:04 Guest background and motivation — 2:04–7:01 Defining the mental load and its three domains — 7:01–12:54 The triple threat and implications for home life — 12:54–15:58 Externalizing the mental load and renegotiation as a team — 15:58–16:56 Mental load and sex dynamics — 16:56–23:07 Practical fairness…

People in this episode

Guest: Dr. Morgan Cutlip

Topics covered

• mental load
• marriage
• sex life
• communication
• couples therapy

Keywords

• mental load
• sex life
• marriage
• couples
• communication
• tension
• relationships

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: That Sounds Fun Network

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