EP 664: Hot Take: Soulmates don't exist, Closure is a lie and Monogamy isn't Boring
About this episode
Dr. Morgan Anderson discusses the beliefs about love that may be keeping women stuck in unhealthy patterns, challenging common notions about soulmates, closure, and monogamy.
We need to talk about what you actually believe about love. Not what you think you believe, what's quietly running the show underneath all of it. Because I've watched so many women do the work, read the books, listen to all the podcasts (maybe even this one), and still stay stuck. And a lot of the time? It comes down to the beliefs they've never once questioned. After a decade of doing this work, coaching hundreds of women, and being in my own healthy marriage, I'm sharing the five relationship beliefs I'm doubling down on, even the ones that are going to make some of you want to unfollow me. I'm okay with that. Inside this episode: Why your soulmate doesn't exist yet and why that's actually the best news you've ever heard The real reason codependency is repelling the love you want (and what's magnetic instead) Why closure is a lie you've been telling yourself and how to finally give it to yourself What monogamy and the spark actually have in common — and why you're probably blaming the wrong thing The cultural narrative about men that I think is quietly working against your healing Some of these will land. Some might sting a little. All of them are things I wish someone had said…
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