
Do mutually abusive relationships have a chance?
From Love and Abuse by Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
April 21, 2026 · 39 min · Episode 169
About this episode
The episode discusses the complexities and challenges of mutually abusive relationships and the need for both partners to change their behaviors.
Sometimes both people in the relationship are hurtful, controlling and manipulative. When that's the case, it's going to take more than one person stopping the behaviors, and that presents a few challenges in itself.
People in this episode
Host: Paul Colaianni
Topics covered
- mutually abusive relationships
- emotional abuse
- manipulation
- relationship challenges
- control
Keywords
- mutual abuse
- relationship dynamics
- emotional manipulation
- controlling behavior
- abusive relationships
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