Love and Abuse
by Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
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When they lie and lie and lie
Oct 16, 2026
46m 25s
The early warning signs and red flags that make up an emotionally abusive relationship
Oct 9, 2026
30m 06s
When there's zero reprieve and it's always bad
Oct 1, 2026
26m 16s
In the never-ending rut of hoping they change
Sep 23, 2026
27m 48s
Can you get past more aggressive or physical abuse?
Sep 10, 2026
24m 46s
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- 🇺🇸United States · Mental HealthHOME#1319.3K to 49K
- 🇨🇦Canada · Mental Health#107644 to 3.4K
- 🇿🇦ZA · Mental Health#87129 to 681
- 🇹🇭TH · Mental Health#95109 to 578
- 🇸🇦SA · Mental Health#12972 to 381
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10K to 54K🎙 ~2x weekly·184 episodes·Last published 2d ago - Monthly Reach
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21K to 109K🇺🇸90%🇨🇦6%🇿🇦1%+2 more - Active Followers
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11K to 60K
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| Date | Episode | Topics | Guests | Brands | Places | Keywords | Sponsor | Length | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 10/16/26 |  When they lie and lie and lie | Is one lie too many? Is honesty important in your relationship? Is it so important that if they lied once, you could forgive. If they lied twice, perhaps you could get past it. But what if they simply don't stop lying? What's after that? | 46m 25s | ||||||
| 10/9/26 |  The early warning signs and red flags that make up an emotionally abusive relationship | Are there early warning signs that signal the strong possibility of a relationship becoming abusive? Yes. Absolutely. And you should know them. There are many, unfortunately. Knowledge is power - and this episode is all about your power. | 30m 06s | ||||||
| 10/1/26 |  When there's zero reprieve and it's always bad | Every single thing you do is not only not good enough, but on top of that, you're insulted, belittled, put down, and shamed in front of others. There is absolutely no reprieve from some people. It's like they don't even like you, let alone love you. | 26m 16s | ||||||
| 9/23/26 |  In the never-ending rut of hoping they change | When you're exposed to toxic behavior day after day, you get stuck in a rut with walls so high that you feel like you can never get out. Sometimes a slight shift in mindset allows you to find the first stepping stone toward the top. It may take a while, but there is a path out of the in-the-rut thinking. | 27m 48s | ||||||
| 9/10/26 |  Can you get past more aggressive or physical abuse? | Physical abuse is the totality of all abuse in one package. It's violent and extremely damaging. And the victim of such aggressive behavior can literally be scarred for life. I hope you never experience anything like it. But if you have, this episode may be helpful to you. | 24m 46s | ||||||
| 9/2/26 |  When the relationship boundaries are broken a second time | No description provided. | 26m 55s | ||||||
| 8/27/26 |  Someone's obsession of you can be disastrous | It can feel amazing when someone focuses entirely on you, supporting you, helping you achieve whatever makes you happy... until it turns into a nightmare. | 38m 42s | ||||||
| 8/21/26 |  Isolating you from everything and everyone, leaving you a shell of your former self | Isolation is one of the more destructive forms of emotional abuse, yet many people don't realize it's happening. They simply notice they no longer feel happy or fulfilled. Understanding how isolation works gives you the foundation to make decisions from a place of empowered knowledge instead of from a place someone else has put you in. | 22m 05s | ||||||
| 8/14/26 |  They call me names, put me down, tell me how pathetic I am - I guess I'm the problem.mp3 | Are you the problem if nothing you do is ever right or good enough? Could they possibly be right about everything they're saying? If you believe this, please listen to this episode. It might just save you a lot of doubt and confusion. | 13m 26s | ||||||
| 7/9/26 | relationship controlemotional abuse+3 | — | — | — | controlrelationships+4 | — | 49m 55s | ||
| 7/2/26 | abusive relationshipsparenting+3 | — | — | — | bad parentabusive partner+3 | — | 25m 01s | ||
| 6/26/26 | emotional abuserelationship dynamics+4 | — | — | — | emotional abuserelationship+5 | — | 35m 53s | ||
| 6/18/26 | emotional abuserelationship challenges+3 | — | — | — | abusive relationshipboundaries+3 | — | 24m 54s | ||
| 6/11/26 | abuserelationships+3 | — | — | — | abusive relationshipsemotional abuse+3 | — | 44m 05s | ||
| 6/4/26 | trauma bondemotional abuse+3 | — | — | — | trauma bondlovesick+5 | — | 30m 49s | ||
| 5/28/26 | emotional abuserelationships+3 | — | — | — | emotional abuseforgiveness+3 | — | 40m 53s | ||
| 5/18/26 | narcissismparenting+3 | — | — | — | narcissistic parentmanipulation+3 | — | 43m 56s | ||
| 5/7/26 | boundariesmistreatment+4 | — | — | — | boundariesmistreatment+5 | — | 39m 51s | ||
| 4/30/26 | abusemental health+3 | — | — | — | abusive behaviormental health+3 | — | 18m 02s | ||
| 4/28/26 | emotional abuserelationship dynamics+4 | — | — | — | emotional abuseabuser+5 | — | 25m 25s | ||
| 4/21/26 | mutually abusive relationshipsemotional abuse+3 | — | — | — | mutual abuserelationship dynamics+3 | — | 38m 49s | ||
| 4/15/26 | misogynyabusive relationships+3 | — | — | — | misogynyabuse+4 | — | 28m 32s | ||
| 4/8/26 | emotional abuserelationship issues+3 | — | — | — | emotional abuserelationship+3 | — | 37m 37s | ||
| 4/1/26 | emotional manipulationrelationship dynamics+3 | — | — | — | emotional manipulationrelationship+4 | — | 26m 12s | ||
| 3/24/26 | emotional abuserelationship dynamics+3 | — | — | — | emotional abuserelationship+5 | — | 27m 18s | ||
| 3/19/26 | emotional abusehealing+3 | — | — | — | emotional abusehealing+3 | — | 24m 42s | ||
| 3/13/26 | emotional abusehealing+3 | — | — | — | emotional abuserhealing+3 | — | 51m 49s | ||
| 3/3/26 | divorceemotional abuse+3 | — | — | — | divorceemotional abuse+5 | — | 24m 37s | ||
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Chart history for Love and Abuse
Peaked at #87 in South Africa, currently #87 in South Africa.
| Market | Genre | Peak | Current | Trend |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| South Africa | — | #87 | #87 | — |
| TH | — | #95 | #95 | — |
| Canada | — | #107 | #107 | — |
| SA | — | #129 | #129 | — |
| United States | — | #131 | #131 | — |
| HK | — | #158 | #158 | — |
| NG | — | #189 | #189 | — |
| IS | — | #198 | #198 | — |
Chart Positions
8 placements across 8 markets.
Chart Positions
8 placements across 8 markets.