When you won't see an emotionally abusive person change
From Love and Abuse by Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
April 8, 2026 · 38 min · Episode 167
About this episode
The episode discusses the challenges of dealing with an emotionally abusive person who is unwilling to change.
You can't fix what's unwilling to be fixed. And when someone would rather you and the relationship suffer and crumble than work on improving themselves, you might have only one choice left.
People in this episode
Host: Paul Colaianni
Topics covered
- emotional abuse
- relationship issues
- personal growth
- self-improvement
- boundaries
Keywords
- emotional abuse
- relationship
- change
- self-improvement
- boundaries
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