About this episode
In this episode, the host reflects on past mistakes and shares a more honest perspective on their love life.
A few weeks ago I put out the Melissa Ford episode, and the comments told me something I already knew before I hit publish: I crossed a line I claim to stand against. This is me sitting with that. Chaos is a ladder. I've climbed it for twenty years. The only other ladder I know is love, and it's so much harder, because you have to actually feel your way up it. I also owe a more honest version of something I said before about my life, my relationship, the joy I keep telling from the outside in instead of the inside out. So I'm saying the true thing plainly: I have an amazing love life. This is the year I stop building from fear. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
People in this episode
Host: shan
Topics covered
- self-reflection
- love
- relationships
- personal growth
- fear
Keywords
- self-reflection
- love life
- relationships
- personal growth
- fear
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