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Loving Someone Based on How They Present Is the Whole Problem
Jun 24, 2026
40m 57s
The Most Intimate Thing a Man Can Do for His Family ft. Jared Brady & Jonathan Singletary
Jun 17, 2026
55m 12s
How to Be in a Relationship Without One Foot Out the Door - Inayah on Going from Leaver to Lover
Jun 10, 2026
56m 44s
He Cheated. Then He Had a Son. Here's What He Did Differently
Jun 3, 2026
1h 13m 15s
I'm Sorry.
Jun 1, 2026
31m 51s
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| Date | Episode | Topics | Guests | Brands | Places | Keywords | Sponsor | Length | |
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| 6/24/26 | ![]() Loving Someone Based on How They Present Is the Whole Problem | Thanks to Stasis for sponsoring this video. Hold your stimulant to a higher standard — go to https://yt.link/iD6LFRL and use code LOVERS for 15% off your first order. I'm sharing this in my personal capacity. Always speak with your own healthcare provider about what's right for you. #ad #StasisPartner *These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. —------- Ezee (also known as Young Ezee) is an Atlanta-based comedian, actor, and content creator with over 6.6 million followers across platforms, known for her signature stud energy, her queer-centric digital shows, and her upcoming stand-up special Another Little Lesbian. This conversation goes somewhere most relationship content doesn't: the specific weight of being the one who always has to hold it together — not because you're a man, but because you look like one. Ezee talks about what it cost her to suppress her emotions to fit a role her partners assigned based on how she presents, the moment she realized she'd been leaking that suppression as rage instead of tears, and how her relationship with her fiancée Natalie became the first place she felt genuinely safe to be a full woman. Woven through all of it is a double-proposal story that ends up being the most precise illustration possible of what it looks like when someone refuses to let the person they love go unseen. This one is for anyone who has ever been handed a script they didn't write and loved someone hard enough to finally put it down. Follow Ezee https://www.instagram.com/ezee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@youngezee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ezee Follow Andrea Lewis Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andrealewis/?hl=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@andrealewischannel TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@missandrealewis?lang=en Want more LOVERS? Follow Shan on Instagram → http://instagram.com/shanboodram Get a free weekly Love Letter from Shan → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community Explore free quizzes + worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 40m 57s | ||||||
| 6/17/26 | ![]() The Most Intimate Thing a Man Can Do for His Family ft. Jared Brady & Jonathan Singletary | Jared Brady and Jonathan Singletary sit down to talk about fatherhood, inheritance, and the difference between intention and what's already in the body. Jonathan Singletary is a Los Angeles-based musician, songwriter, and founder of Piano & Prayer, a musical meditation and community gathering practice featured in the LA Times that has grown into a meaningful spiritual presence for thousands of people. Jared Brady is a creative director, actor, and co-founder of Shared Entertainment. Both men are in the middle of the work. Jonathan reaches for his daughter on instinct before the decision clears his mind. Jared watches his father's disappointment move across his own face and recognizes it. Neither of them is reporting from a solved place — they're two fathers who love their kids, who came from fathers they love, and who are sitting with the uncomfortable truth that some of what they're trying not to repeat is already running underneath everything. What holds this conversation together is a question Jared names explicitly: when you strip away the edited version of yourself, what voice are you actually parenting from? This episode earns its warmth by being honest first — about cost, about inheritance, and about the grace it takes to extend that same grace back to your own father. This one is for anyone who is actively trying to parent differently than they were parented, and discovering that the work is less about what you know and more about what you notice. ———————— Show some love on Daddy Day with our sponsor Arya! Go to http://arya.fyi/shan and use code DADDY10 ;) LOVERS! Get 15% off OneSkin with the code LOVERSBYSHAN at https://www.oneskin.co/LOVERSBYSHAN #oneskinpod Showing love to our sponsor Biologica. Take their Quick Hormonal Life Stage Quiz to find the formula that’s right for you, and get up to 32% on your purchase: https://biologica.com/lovers Lots of love to our sponsor, Quince. Go to quince.com/lovers for FREE shipping and 365-day returns. ———————— Follow Jonathan Singletary Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jonathansingletary Website: https://www.jonathansingletary.com Piano & Prayer: https://www.jonathansingletary.com/piano-and-prayer/patreon Follow Jared Brady → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enjoyjaredbrady Want more LOVERS? Get a free weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community Explore free quizzes + worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 55m 12s | ||||||
| 6/10/26 | ![]() How to Be in a Relationship Without One Foot Out the Door - Inayah on Going from Leaver to Lover✨ | relationshipsemotional honesty+3 | Inayah | Boo'd UpTherapy Wasn't Enough | HoustonJamaica | relationship adviceemotional honesty+3 | hers | 56m 44s | |
| 6/3/26 | ![]() He Cheated. Then He Had a Son. Here's What He Did Differently✨ | infidelityfatherhood+3 | Dondré Whitfield | Penguin Random HouseMale vs. Man+1 | — | cheatinglove+3 | Beducated | 1h 13m 15s | |
| 6/1/26 | ![]() I'm Sorry.✨ | self-reflectionlove+3 | — | — | — | self-reflectionlove life+3 | — | 31m 51s | |
| 5/27/26 | ![]() Part II: Finding Happily Ever After Without a Romantic Partner ft. Melyssa Ford✨ | happinessrelationships+3 | Melyssa Ford | Hot & BotheredLOVERS by shan+1 | — | happily ever afterromantic partner+3 | #BEDucated | 1h 13m 10s | |
| 5/20/26 | ![]() Everyone Wants This Kind of Love… Until It Costs Them Something✨ | partnershiptrust+4 | KevOnStageMelissa Fredericks | — | — | lovepartnership+5 | Beducatedbg2621-boody | 1h 14m 24s | |
| 5/13/26 | ![]() Is It Wrong to Still Want Attention if You’re in a Relationship ft. Lauren Morrison✨ | attention in relationshipsfemale desirability+4 | Lauren Morrison | — | — | attentionrelationships+6 | Beducatedbg2620-boody | 1h 15m 09s | |
| 5/6/26 | ![]() This Changes How You See Avoidantly Attached People ft. Dr. Amir Levine✨ | attachment theoryavoidant attachment+4 | Dr. Amir Levine | BeducatedMasterClass+1 | — | attachment styleavoidant attachment+5 | AryaMothersDay | 58m 16s | |
| 4/29/26 | ![]() This Kama Sutra Secret About Hands Changes Everything✨ | Kama Sutraintimacy+4 | Seema Anand | BeducatedKäma+1 | London | Kama Sutrahands+5 | BiologicaLOVERS | 54m 17s | |
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| 4/22/26 | ![]() The Year I Decided I’d Never Divorce My Husband✨ | marriagecommitment+3 | Jared | YouTubeInstagram | — | seven-year itchmarriage challenges+3 | Beducatedshan2026 | 36m 35s | |
| 4/15/26 | ![]() I Spent Years Forcing Relationships… Here’s What I Learned ft. Affion Crockett✨ | relationshipslove+3 | Affion Crockett | — | — | relationshipslove+6 | TonalLOVERS | 1h 03m 17s | |
| 4/8/26 | ![]() The Secret to Attracting a Husband, Not Just a Boyfriend ft. Kamie Crawford✨ | datingrelationships+4 | Kamie Crawford | — | — | attracting a husbanddating standards+3 | SquarespaceLOVERS | 1h 12m 01s | |
| 4/1/26 | ![]() I Thought I Wanted to Be a Trad Wife… I Was Wrong ft. Lisa Bilyeu✨ | motherhoodidentity+3 | Lisa Bilyeu | Quest NutritionImpact Theory Studios | — | trad wifechild-free+3 | Cozy EarthLOVERS | 1h 16m 41s | |
| 3/25/26 | ![]() Why “Normal” Sex Doesn’t Work for Many Black and Brown Women Ft. Aida Mariam Davis✨ | sexual identityintimacy+3 | Aida Mariam Davis | Kindred Creation: Parables and Paradigms for Freedom | — | sexual identityintimacy+5 | TonalLOVERS | 58m 23s | |
| 3/18/26 | ![]() What Men Actually Think About Before They Propose ft. Mark Manson✨ | proposalsrelationships+4 | Mark Manson | The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ckEverything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope+2 | — | proposecommitment+5 | MasterClassLOVERS | 1h 15m 56s | |
| 3/11/26 | ![]() Are You Nicer to Strangers Than Your Partner ft. DeWanda Wise✨ | marriagerelationships+3 | DeWanda Wise | — | — | marriagerelationships+3 | EvvyLOVERSBYSHAN10 | 55m 39s | |
| 3/4/26 | ![]() What If You Never Meet the One ft. Melyssa Ford✨ | desirabilitypartnership+3 | Melyssa Ford | — | — | desirabilitypartnership+5 | TonalLOVERS | 1h 28m 00s | |
| 2/25/26 | ![]() Can Intimacy Survive Porn, Drinks and Phone Addictions? ft. Dr Anna Lembke✨ | intimacyaddiction+4 | Dr Anna Lembke | MasterClassDopamine Nation | — | intimacyaddiction+5 | Cozy EarthLOVERS | 59m 08s | |
| 2/18/26 | ![]() Spinning the Block Doesn’t Work Without This ft. Jerrie Johnson and Dria Brown✨ | relationshipsfriendship+3 | Jerrie JohnsonDria Brown | NAACPHarlem | — | relationship check-inrebuilding relationships+3 | MasterClassLOVERS | 1h 07m 41s | |
| 2/11/26 | ![]() Do We Believe Her Now? | Abby De La Rosa Returns to Discuss Her Alternative Relationship | In this episode of Lovers, Abby De La Rosa returns three years after our first conversation to reflect on what time, motherhood, and public scrutiny have actually taught her. When Abby first joined the show, she was pregnant and navigating intense speculation about her relationship with Nick Cannon, who now has 12 children with multiple partners. That episode sparked massive conversation and debate about alternative relationship structures, belief, and who society decides to trust. Now, years later, Abby comes back with clarity, boundaries, and lived experience. In this follow-up conversation, Abby opens up about what it’s been like raising children within a highly publicized family dynamic, how her understanding of love and partnership has evolved, and why she remains grounded in her choices despite ongoing judgment. She addresses the assumptions people make about women in nontraditional relationships, what outsiders often get wrong about consent and agency, and how motherhood reshaped her sense of self. This episode isn’t about defending a headline or convincing anyone of a particular relationship model. It’s about autonomy, growth, and what happens when a woman is given time to live inside the decisions she once had to justify. If you’ve ever wondered what comes after the internet forms an opinion, this conversation answers that. Right now, Tonal is offering our listeners $200 off your Tonal purchase. Just go to tonal.com and use promo code LOVERS. — Thank you to Evvy for sponsoring today’s episode! Check out Evvy here: https://evvy.yt.link/SVTTsvO and use code LOVERSBYSHAN10 for 10% off your first purchase (up to $25). See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 17m 36s | ||||||
| 2/4/26 | ![]() What Men Risk When They Stay Quiet ft. Kier Gaines | In this episode of Lovers, therapist Kier Gaines shares a personal and professional reflection on how resentment builds when men are taught to silence their emotional truth. Kier opens up about a pivotal moment in his own relationship, when he realized that his partner’s tone was hurting his feelings, and that his fear of naming it, out of concern that he would sound “effeminate” or not man enough, was quietly turning into resentment. What started as self-protection slowly became emotional distance, until he reached a breaking point where honesty felt less risky than staying silent. Together, we unpack how masculinity norms shape emotional expression, why unspoken hurt often masquerades as resentment, and how learning to articulate emotional impact can transform intimacy rather than threaten it. This conversation explores the cost of swallowing feelings, the courage it takes to speak before resentment hardens, and what becomes possible when men allow themselves to be emotionally legible in their relationships. This episode isn’t about blame or tone-policing. It’s about emotional responsibility, relational repair, and the freedom that comes from finally saying the thing you were afraid would make you sound weak. If you wished this episode is longer and you could hear more about Kier Gaines Is My Relationship Healthy Quizhttps://www.loversbyshan.com/resource/the-relationship-check-in Follow Kier GainesInstagram → https://www.instagram.com/kiergaines TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@kiergaines Twitter/X → https://twitter.com/kiergaines YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@KierandNoemie Official Website → https://www.kiergaines.com Course Words That Connect → https://kier-gaines.mykajabi.com/wordsthatconnect Want more Lover?Receive the weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletterJoin the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/communityExplore quizzes and worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 54m 38s | ||||||
| 1/28/26 | ![]() Rachel Lindsay’s Shocking Discovery About Intimacy After Divorce | In this episode of Lovers, Higher Learning host and former Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay shares the deeply personal story of what it was like to experience intimacy both sexually and emotionally for the first time after divorce. After nearly a decade of being with only one partner, that she met while being the Bachelorette, Rachel walks us through the fears, emotions, and expectations she carried into that moment, from questions of safety and vulnerability to the quiet pressure of “doing it right” after such a long chapter had closed. She reflects on what that experience taught her about trust, desire, and emotional presence, and how those lessons reshaped her understanding of intimacy moving forward. Though she isn’t with the person from that first post-divorce experience, Rachel shares why she remains grateful for what it revealed about her needs, her boundaries, and her capacity for connection. She also opens up about how those insights are influencing the relationship she’s in today, offering a grounded, honest look at what intimacy can become after loss, change, and reinvention. This conversation isn’t about sex for shock value. It’s about safety, growth, and learning how to meet yourself again after everything you thought you knew about love has shifted. ———Follow Rachel LindsayInstagram → https://www.instagram.com/therachlindsay/ YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@HigherLearning Podcast — Higher Learning with Van Lathan & Rachel Lindsay → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/higher-learning-with-van-lathan-and-rachel-lindsay/id1515152489 Official Website → https://www.rachellindsayofficial.com/ Rachel’s Book — Miss Me With That: Hot Takes, Helpful Tidbits, And A Few Hard Truths → https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/57895042-miss-me-with-that?from_search=true&from_srp=true&qid=vFiuBJ3vpY&rank=1 Want more Lover?Receive the weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletterJoin the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/communityExplore quizzes and worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 50m 51s | ||||||
| 1/21/26 | ![]() The Real Reason We Started an Open Relationship | In this episode of Lovers, I’m joined by my husband Jared Brady to tell the story of the exact day we decided to call our relationship an open relationship. Want to take the Relationship Style quiz I mentioned in the episode? Click HEREhttps://www.loversbyshan.com/quizzes In this episode, Shan Boodram and Jared Brady share intimate details from the early days of their relationship that led to them choosing to label their love as an open relationship. If your first reaction to “open relationship” is “so… cheating?” you’re not alone, and this conversation is also for you. Cheating isn’t about a specific behavior, it’s about breaking the rules of the relationship you agreed to play by, which is why it’s important to clearly define YOUR rules together. This episode explores why people seek structured relationships even without exclusivity, what commitment actually looks like when it isn’t defined by romantic restriction, and how accountability, emotional safety, partnership, and love can exist outside traditional scripts. This isn’t an episode about convincing anyone to open their relationship. It’s about clarity, consent, and understanding why the rules matter more than the label. MasterClassHave you taken my MasterClass yet? New subscribers get access to my class and hundreds of others starting at $10 per month. Right now, our listeners get an additional 15% off any MasterClass annual membership at masterclass.com/lovers. Follow JaredInstagram → https://www.instagram.com/enjoyjaredbradyYouTube → https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKVWwEy39GLNzKXXt9v46TA Want more Lover?Receive the weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletterJoin the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/communityExplore quizzes and worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 56m 03s | ||||||
| 12/17/25 | ![]() When Conflict Turns Lovers Into Exes ft. Touré | Conflict is inevitable in long-term relationships. Damage doesn’t have to be.In this episode, we explore what actually separates fights that bring couples closer from fights that quietly turn lovers into enemies. We talk about the moment arguments go sideways, why so many conflicts feel bigger than the issue at hand, and how couples can stay on the same team even when they fundamentally disagree.Our guest, Touré Neblett, draws on decades of navigating high-stakes, contentious conversations both publicly and privately to share what he’s learned about emotional regulation, repair, and conflict inside a long-term marriage. This conversation focuses on how disagreement can exist without contempt, and how learning to fight differently can fundamentally change the trajectory of a relationship.Follow TouréWebsite → https://toure.com Toure Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/toureshow/ Instagram YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCo-SwvkGbQgDt3oXfASPPJQ youtube.comPodcast → Touré Show (Apple/Spotify) Books → Who’s Afraid of Post-Blackness? What It Means to Be Black Now; I Would Die 4 U: Why Prince Became an Icon; Soul City; Never Drank the Kool-Aid; The Portable Promised Land; Nothing Compares 2 U (available on Amazon and major booksellers)Want more Lover? Shan’s AI trained to give you her advice → http://loversbyshan.comReceive the weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletterJoin the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/communityExplore quizzes and worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 54m 00s | ||||||
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Chart Positions
27 placements across 25 markets.
Chart Positions
27 placements across 25 markets.
















