About this episode

Ellecia Paine discusses New Relationship Energy, its effects on the brain and body, and the importance of managing its intensity.

New Relationship Energy, or NRE, is one of the most talked-about dynamics in non-monogamy, and one of the most misunderstood. In this episode, relationship coach Ellecia Paine breaks down what NRE actually is, what’s happening in your brain and body during those early stages of attraction, and why the dopamine-fueled excitement of a new connection can make people feel euphoric, obsessive, and sometimes a little reckless. You’ll learn: • The brain chemistry behind NRE • Why the intensity can l...

People in this episode

Host: Ellecia Paine

Topics covered

• New Relationship Energy
• non-monogamy
• relationship dynamics
• brain chemistry
• dopamine
• attraction

Keywords

• New Relationship Energy
• NRE
• relationship coach
• dopamine
• attraction
• euphoria
• obsession

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