E261: ED, PE & Everything In Between: Your Performance Problems Solved (Part 2)

About this episode

This episode provides practical advice for addressing penis performance problems and maintaining intimacy in relationships.

The response to our first episode on penis performance problems was so big that we knew we had to come back for round two. In this episode, we're getting into the practical stuff: what to do in the moment when things aren't going as planned, how to keep your sex life feeling connected and fun even when performance issues are in the mix, and how both partners can show up for each other without making everything weird. 💛 In this episode, you'll hear: Whether you need to tell your wife you're taking ED meds How to get out of your head before sex when PE anxiety is already spiraling Practical tricks for lasting longer — specific, usable techniques that actually help How to bring spontaneity back when Viagra has a 30-minute waiting period — because yes, this is fixable How to bring up a performance issue with a partner who doesn't seem to notice it — the conversation you've been avoiding, made easier What to do when he loses his erection mid-sex When it's time to bring in a doctor — because sometimes the answer really is medical If you or your partner have ever felt alone in navigating this stuff, this episode is proof that you're not. 🔗 LINKS & RESOURCES We've put together a guide…

People in this episode

Hosts: Vanessa Marin, Xander Marin

Topics covered

• erectile dysfunction
• premature ejaculation
• sexual performance
• relationship communication
• intimacy

Keywords

• ED
• PE
• sexual performance
• intimacy
• relationship advice
• performance anxiety
• erection issues

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: The Modern Man's Guide to Conquering Performance Pressure

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