Emotional Regulation and Why It’s Important In Relationships: Part 2

Emotional Regulation and Why It’s Important In Relationships: Part 2

From Relationship Advice by Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich

June 11, 2026 · 48 min

About this episode

This episode discusses co-regulation in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding individual needs for support and space during emotional moments.

In part two of our Emotional Regulation series, we’re talking all about co-regulation — how to regulate with your partner, friend, or someone you trust.While some people naturally want closeness and support when they’re overwhelmed, others need space before they’re ready to connect. In this episode, we break down why both independent regulation and co-regulation matter, how to know what your partner may need, and how to support someone without escalating the moment. Main Talking Points: Co-Regulation Independent Regulation Giving Space Supporting Calm Partner Differences Repairing Together Give Me Discounts! Check out Relationship Academy! ⁠ Kiwi Fodzyme - Get 30% off your first order! Rythm - Get 15% off your first month + free shipping! Tanasi - Use code “relationship" for 25% off your first order. If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a⁠ review in iTunes⁠? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People in this episode

Hosts: Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, Cayla Bozovich

Topics covered

  • Emotional Regulation
  • Co-Regulation
  • Independent Regulation
  • Support in Relationships
  • Communication
  • Relationship Dynamics

Keywords

  • emotional regulation
  • co-regulation
  • relationships
  • support
  • communication
  • independent regulation
  • relationship dynamics

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Kiwi Fodzyme, Rythm, Tanasi

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Organizations: Relationship Academy

Products: Kiwi Fodzyme, Rythm, Tanasi

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