Relationship Advice
by Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
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You Don’t See What I’m Carrying
Oct 19, 2026
49m 28s
The Passion Triangle with Dr. Cheryl: QUICK ADVICE
Oct 15, 2026
24m 33s
The Difference Between Being Loved and Being Liked with Jonathan Van Viegen
Oct 12, 2026
57m 27s
Finding The One? Try Becoming The One: QUICK ADVICE with Monica Berg
Oct 8, 2026
24m 25s
The Fight Is Not About The Fight
Oct 5, 2026
51m 01s
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- 🇰🇷South Korea · Mental Health#387.7K to 94K
- 🇯🇵Japan · Mental Health#932.0K to 25K
- 🇮🇱IL · Mental Health#461.5K to 18K
- 🇸🇬SG · Mental Health#401.4K to 18K
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| Date | Episode | Topics | Guests | Brands | Places | Keywords | Sponsor | Length | |
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| 10/19/26 |  You Don’t See What I’m Carrying | How often do we judge a partner’s apparent inaction while feeling entirely overwhelmed by our own stress? When everyday household friction erupts into an argument, the conflict is rarely about time management—it is a cry to have our unseen emotional burdens recognized. In this episode, we unpack the hidden internal loads partners carry and explore how shifting from quick assumptions to compassionate curiosity transforms relational strain into deep connection. Main Talking Points: Uncovering Invisible Emotional Loads Assessing Individual Daily Capacity Replacing Assumptions With Curiosity Validating Unseen Relational Strain Respecting Varying Nervous Capacities Connecting Beyond Full Understanding You do not need to fully comprehend every detail of your partner's internal struggle to offer meaningful relief. Relational safety grows the moment you pause, validate their experience, and acknowledge the weight in each other's backpacks. Give Me Discounts! Kiwi Fodzyme - Get 30% off your first order! Tanasi - Use code “relationship" for 25% off your first order. *If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 49m 28s | ||||||
| 10/15/26 | The Passion Triangle with Dr. Cheryl: QUICK ADVICE | Click here to sign up for Relationship Academy Ready for the next step? Choose your Passion Masterclass time and learn how to bring more connection, intimacy, and passion back into your relationship: https://drcherylfraser.mykajabi.com/masterclass Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 24m 33s | ||||||
| 10/12/26 |  The Difference Between Being Loved and Being Liked with Jonathan Van Viegen | Free 10 Day Couples Challenge Try Relationship Academy Can a marriage survive when love remains, but genuine likability has eroded? In this episode, marriage and family therapist and author Jonathan Van Viegen joins us to explore why restoring mutual likability matters far more than obsessing over chore division or endless interrogation. We unpack how shifting from scarcity-driven "needs" to open "wants"—and balancing radical maturity with forgiveness—can transform relational injuries into lasting connection. Main Talking Points: Loving Versus Liking Curiosity Over Resentment Radical Behavioral Maturity Navigating Forgiveness Journeys Eliminating "Why" Interrogations Reframing Needs To Wants Rebuilding a thriving partnership isn't about perfection or scorekeeping; it's about showing up with the willingness to choose each other every day. Real connection unfolds when you trade defensive interrogation for curiosity and work together toward mutual abundance. Connect with Jonathan Van Viegen: Jonathan Van Viegen’s Book: Choosing Us https://jonathanvanviegen.com/book Jonathan Van Viegen's Website: https://jonathanvanviegen.com Give Me Discounts! Kiwi Fodzyme - Get 30% off your first order! Tanasi - Use code “relationship" for 25% off your first order. *If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 57m 27s | ||||||
| 10/8/26 |  Finding The One? Try Becoming The One: QUICK ADVICE with Monica Berg | Join our live coaching call tomorrow at 3pm EST for Relationship Advice listeners! Click here to sign up. Today is the last day to get in at the founders rate! Check out Monica's Masterclass Follow Monica on instagram Stop trying to “find the one” — focus on becoming the one.A strong relationship starts with knowing yourself: your values, purpose, patterns, and who you want to become. The danger is expecting a partner or marriage to somehow complete your growth for you. The right relationship should help you become more yourself, not less.Monica’s Michelangelo vs. Golem distinction is probably the strongest concept in the episode: a healthy partner helps reveal a version of you that you also want to become. An unhealthy dynamic tries to sculpt you into the person they want you to be. Relationship satisfaction has a lot to do with how we interpret our partner.Early on, we naturally magnify the positive; later, we can start magnifying the negative. Healthy relationships require intentionally cultivating appreciation, challenging our assumptions, and reframing what’s happening instead of automatically concluding, “My partner is the problem.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 24m 25s | ||||||
| 10/5/26 |  The Fight Is Not About The Fight | Free 10 Day Couples Challenge Try Relationship Academy Why do small everyday annoyances so easily turn into explosive arguments? When couples get stuck in repetitive friction, the surface issue is rarely the real battleground. In this episode, we explore how superficial conflicts actually point to deeper emotional needs, and how stepping back allows you to move from defensive cycles into genuine connection. Main Talking Points: Underlying Relational Drivers Power And Control Closeness And Care Respect And Recognition Window Of Tolerance Intention Versus Impact True relational resolution isn't about winning an argument over surface logistics, but about creating enough safety to understand what is truly being triggered. When you look past the immediate friction, every conflict becomes an opportunity to deepen trust and mutual care. Give Me Discounts! Kiwi Fodzyme - Get 30% off your first order! Tanasi - Use code “relationship" for 25% off your first order. *If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 51m 01s | ||||||
| 9/28/26 |  Why You Keep Having the Same Sex feat. Laurie Watson | Free 10 Day Couples Challenge Try Relationship Academy Why do so many couples find themselves stuck repeating the same awkward sexual patterns or avoiding physical intimacy altogether? True sexual connection isn't about forced perfection or quick mechanical fixes, but about building attachment security and communicating openly about your erotic mind. In this episode, Dr. Laurie Watson unpacks how to navigate desire discrepancies, tolerate vulnerability, and reframe sexual friction into deeper relational safety. Main Talking Points: Sex Therapy Beyond Mechanics Tolerating Awkward Intimacy Attachment In The Bedroom Individuation Fueling Erotic Energy Managing Desire Discrepancies Debunking Common Sex Myths Great sex doesn't require flawless performance, but rather the courage to tolerate anxiety, honor differences, and stay curious about one another. When you turn sexual friction into honest dialogue, awkwardness becomes a doorway to genuine connection. Visit Dr. Laurie Watson's Website: https://www.lauriewatson.com Give Me Discounts! Kiwi Fodzyme - Get 30% off your first order! Tanasi - Use code “relationship" for 25% off your first order. *If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 58m 09s | ||||||
| 9/24/26 |  Why You Keep Dating The Same Person In A Different Body: Dr. Gillian O'Shea Brown | Join Relationship Academy today for a complementary 1:1 with one of the hosts! Right now, buy one pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs at WarbyParker.com/RELATIONSHIP Dr. Gillian's Book! We often repeat the same relationship pattern with different people because familiar pain can feel safer than uncertainty. Noticing the pattern is the beginning of change—but lasting growth requires identifying the unmet need behind it. The “erotic emotional map” helps reveal recurring dynamics by describing the qualities of past relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 28m 18s | ||||||
| 9/21/26 |  Stop Taking Your Partner's Feelings Personally | Free 10 Day Couples Challenge Try Relationship Academy When your partner walks through the door in a bad mood, do you immediately wonder what you did wrong or rush to fix it? Taking your partner's emotions personally turns their everyday stress into relational friction, forcing them to manage your reaction on top of their own feelings. In this episode, we unpack the shift from carrying emotional responsibility to offering true empathy, giving both of you permission to feel. Main Talking Points: Personalizing Versus Empathy Unpacking Emotional Responsibility Breaking Fixing Cycles Tolerating Partner Discomfort Reducing Emotion Layers Frameworks Over Scripts Secure relationships aren't built on avoiding uncomfortable feelings, but on cultivating the capacity to tolerate and hold space for them together. Real connection happens when you allow feelings to be felt without making them about you. Give Me Discounts! Kiwi Fodzyme - Get 30% off your first order! Tanasi - Use code “relationship" for 25% off your first order. *If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 44m 51s | ||||||
| 9/17/26 |  Quick Advice: HALT | Get The Founders Rate For Relationship Academy Get $100 off Spark My Relationship Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 18m 08s | ||||||
| 9/14/26 |  What Happens When We Betray Ourselves With Jessica Pressler | Free 10 Day Couples Challenge Try Relationship Academy Why do we so often find ourselves repeating the same painful relational patterns even after promising to choose differently? In this episode, therapist and author Jessica Anne Pressler joins us to unpack how early protective survival strategies can evolve into adult self-sabotage. By shifting our attention from dissecting a partner's flaws to understanding our own internal boundaries, we move away from reflexive self-abandonment and step toward deep self-compassion and relational security. Main Talking Points: Unpacking Internal Self-Sabotage Reframing Childhood Coping Mechanisms Navigating Narcissistic Relationship Dynamics Overcoming Relational Self-Abandonment Cultivating Deep Self-Awareness Integrating Protective Inner Parts Healing begins not by fighting the parts of us that try to keep us safe, but by offering them the self-compassion and internal leadership they were always looking for. Connect with Jessica Anne Pressler: Jessica Anne Pressler's Website: https://www.jessicaannepressler.com Jessica Anne Pressler's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicaannepressler Give Me Discounts! Kiwi Fodzyme - Get 30% off your first order! Tanasi - Use code “relationship" for 25% off your first order. *If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 46m 14s | ||||||
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| 9/10/26 | attachment stylesrelationship dynamics+3 | Dr. Diane Heller | VINTEDRelationship Academy | — | anxious attachmentavoidant attachment+3 | — | 25m 32s | ||
| 9/7/26 | neurodivergencerelationships+4 | — | — | — | neurodivergenceexecutive dysfunction+5 | Kiwi Fodzyme | 52m 21s | ||
| 9/2/26 | emotional expressioncommunication+3 | — | Relationship Academymegaphone.fm | — | relationship adviceemotions+3 | — | 18m 09s | ||
| 8/31/26 | intuitionrelationships+4 | Laura Day | Thrive TherapyRelationship Academy+1 | — | intuitionrelationships+5 | Kiwi Fodzyme30% off | 58m 59s | ||
| 8/27/26 | relationship adviceenergy+3 | Dr. Sue Morter | Thrive Therapymegaphone.fm | — | relationshipcommunication+3 | — | 25m 53s | ||
| 8/24/26 | emotional intimacyphysical intimacy+3 | George Faller | Thrive Therapy | — | couples therapyrelationship dynamics+3 | Kiwi Fodzymenone | 56m 03s | ||
| 8/20/26 | charismarelationships+3 | Olivia Fox Cabane | Thrive Therapy | — | charismarelationships+3 | Kiwi Fodzyme | 22m 49s | ||
| 8/17/26 | artificial intelligencehuman intimacy+4 | Bridget Todd | Thrive Therapy | — | AIintimacy+6 | Kiwi Fodzymenone | 54m 54s | ||
| 8/13/26 | cheatingrelationships+3 | Dr. Glenn Hutchinson | Spark My Relationship Course10 Day Couples Challenge+4 | — | cheatinginfidelity+4 | — | 23m 48s | ||
| 8/10/26 | emotional vulnerabilityrelational conflict+4 | — | — | — | pursuerswithdrawers+5 | — | 53m 09s | ||
| 8/6/26 | Would You Get Rid Of "Fear" If You Could? | FREE 10 Day Couples Challenge Check out Relationship Academy! Would you get rid of fear if you had the choice? In this episode, we explore what fear actually is, why it exists, and how it affects us both physically and psychologically. We also discuss the evolutionary purpose of fear, when it becomes maladaptive, and how tools like mindfulness, deep breathing, cognitive reframing, exposure, therapy, and journaling can help us regulate and process fear in healthier ways. In this episode: Understanding the Purpose of Fear The Fight-or-Flight Response Physical and Psychological Fear When Fear Becomes Maladaptive Regulating Fear and Anxiety Processing Fear Through Growth Give Me Discounts! Kiwi Fodzyme - Get 30% off your first order! Simple Practice - If you're in mental health and not using simple practice then what are you doing??? Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! Tanasi - Use code “relationship" for 25% off your first order. *If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 43m 48s | ||||||
| 8/3/26 |  Why Relationships Make Us Feel Like Children Again | FREE 10 Day Couples Challenge Check out Relationship Academy! Why do our deepest relationship conflicts have the power to make us feel like children again? In this episode, we explore how interactions with partners and family members can activate old attachment wounds, causing us to regress into familiar patterns like protesting, people-pleasing, shutting down, or pulling away. We also discuss why healing can initially make these dynamics feel even harder—and how therapy, co-regulation, boundaries, and greater self-awareness can help us respond from our adult selves and create healthier relationships. In this episode: Childhood Attachment Wounds Regressive Relationship Patterns Protest and Shutdown Healing Through Therapy Practicing Co-Regulation Becoming Your Adult Self Give Me Discounts! Kiwi Fodzyme - Get 30% off your first order! Simple Practice - If you're in mental health and not using simple practice then what are you doing??? Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! Tanasi - Use code “relationship" for 25% off your first order. *If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 51m 44s | ||||||
| 7/27/26 |  The Power of Caring with Dr. Tony Nader | FREE 10 Day Couples Challenge Check out Relationship Academy! Dr. Tony Nader joins the podcast to explore ideas from his book, The Power of Caring, and how deeper self-awareness can transform the way we connect with others. He explains how our mind-body tendencies, subconscious patterns, and inner state influence communication, emotional needs, and conflict within relationships. By caring for ourselves and approaching others with greater awareness and compassion, we can create healthier, more meaningful connections. In this episode: The Power of Caring Conscious Self-Awareness Mind-Body Differences Subconscious Patterns Compassionate Communication Deeper Connection Dr. Nader's Website Dr. Nader's Instagram Give Me Discounts! Kiwi Fodzyme - Get 30% off your first order! Simple Practice - If you're in mental health and not using simple practice then what are you doing?? *If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren ______________________ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 55m 41s | ||||||
| 7/20/26 | attachment woundschildhood origins+4 | — | — | — | attachmentrelationships+5 | Kiwi Fodzyme30% off | 50m 45s | ||
| 7/15/26 | attachment woundsinsecure attachment patterns+4 | — | — | — | attachment theoryrelationship dynamics+5 | Kiwi FodzymeCODE | 54m 45s | ||
| 7/6/26 | Relationship PatternsEmotional Repair+4 | Stefanos Sifandos | Thrive Therapy | — | self-awarenessemotional reactivity+5 | Kiwi FodzymeN/A | 57m 09s | ||
| 7/2/26 | relational injuriesrelationship challenges+5 | — | Relationship Academy | — | relational injuriesrelationship challenges+5 | Kiwi Fodzyme30% off | 47m 13s | ||
| 6/27/26 | relationship dynamicscommunication styles+3 | — | — | — | withdrawer spousepursuer+4 | Kiwi Fodzyme30% off | 54m 08s | ||
| 6/25/26 | trauma treatmenthealing+3 | — | — | — | traumahealing+5 | Rhythmrelationship | 48m 06s | ||
| 6/22/26 | relationship viabilityshared values+4 | — | Relationship Academy | — | relationship advicedating+5 | Rhythm15% off + Free shipping | 54m 05s | ||
| 6/18/26 | traumamental health+4 | — | Relationship Academy | — | traumamental health+5 | Kiwi Fodzyme30% off | 41m 50s | ||
| 6/15/26 | jealousyenvy+3 | — | Relationship Academy | — | jealousyenvy+3 | Rhythmrelationship | 58m 31s | ||
| 6/11/26 | Emotional RegulationCo-Regulation+4 | — | Relationship Academy | — | emotional regulationco-regulation+5 | Kiwi Fodzyme30% off | 47m 57s | ||
| 6/8/26 | couples communicationenergy check-ins+3 | — | Relationship Academy | — | couplescommunication+5 | Rhythm15% off + Free shipping | 53m 17s | ||
| 6/4/26 | emotional regulationself-regulation+4 | — | Relationship Academy | — | emotional regulationself-regulation+6 | Kiwi Fodzyme30% off | 50m 07s | ||
| 6/1/26 | angerrelationships+3 | — | — | — | angerrelationships+5 | AG1 | 59m 21s | ||
| 5/28/26 | boundariescommunication+3 | — | — | — | boundariescommunication+4 | Kiwi Fodzyme30% off | 43m 29s | ||
| 5/25/26 | withdrawer rolerelationship dynamics+4 | — | — | — | withdrawerrelationship advice+5 | AG1 | 55m 43s | ||
| 5/18/26 | Vacation ExpectationsPlanning Differences+4 | — | — | — | vacation stresscouples communication+5 | AG1 | 50m 15s | ||
| 5/11/26 | secure attachmentanxious attachment+4 | Trevor Hanson | Thrive Therapy | — | attachment stylesrelationship therapy+4 | AG1 | 58m 49s | ||
| 5/4/26 | intimacyrelationship dynamics+4 | Matthew RaabsmithJoanna Raabsmith | Building True Intimacy | — | intimacytrust+4 | AG1 | 50m 49s | ||
| 4/27/26 | ending relationshipsemotional disconnection+4 | — | — | — | relationship adviceemotional disconnection+3 | AG1 | 41m 01s | ||
| 4/20/26 | vulnerabilityrelationship dynamics+4 | — | — | — | vulnerabilityrelationship+5 | AG1 | 59m 44s | ||
| 4/13/26 | attachment stylesfirst dates+4 | — | — | — | attachment stylesfirst dates+6 | AG1 | 1h 06m 14s | ||
| 4/4/26 | emotional regulationcommunication+3 | — | — | — | calm downco-regulation+3 | AG1 | 51m 36s | ||
| 3/28/26 | mental loadrelationships+4 | — | — | — | mental loadrelationships+5 | AG1 | 51m 38s | ||
| 3/20/26 | friendship conflictpersonal growth+3 | — | Thrive Therapy | — | friendshipconflict+3 | AG1 | 54m 57s | ||
| 3/13/26 | motivation to changerelationships+4 | — | Relationship Academy | — | changerelationships+6 | Cozy EarthIDO | 52m 24s | ||
| 3/6/26 | emotional availabilityvulnerability+4 | — | Thrive Therapy | — | emotional availabilityvulnerability+4 | — | 52m 00s | ||
| 2/28/26 | asking for needsmind-reading+4 | — | Relationship Academy | — | askingneeds+5 | Cozy EarthIDO | 53m 34s | ||
| 2/26/26 | couples valuesrelationship advice+3 | — | — | — | deescalate fightscouples values+3 | Spark My Relationship$100 off | 15m 02s | ||
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Chart history for Relationship Advice
Peaked at #38 in South Korea, currently #38 in South Korea.
| Market | Genre | Peak | Current | Trend |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| South Korea | — | #38 | #38 | — |
| SG | — | #40 | #40 | — |
| IL | — | #46 | #46 | — |
| MY | — | #65 | #65 | — |
| SA | — | #66 | #66 | — |
| NG | — | #67 | #67 | — |
| Japan | — | #93 | #93 | — |
| South Korea | — | #106 | #106 | — |
| IL | — | #112 | #112 | — |
| IS | — | #113 | #113 | — |
| PH | — | #153 | #153 | — |
| SG | — | #162 | #162 | — |
| NG | — | #168 | #168 | — |
| SA | — | #169 | #169 | — |
| MY | — | #172 | #172 | — |
| PT | — | #180 | #180 | — |
| Finland | — | #192 | #192 | — |
Chart Positions
17 placements across 11 markets.
Chart Positions
17 placements across 11 markets.