Savage Lovecast Episode 1018

Savage Lovecast Episode 1018

From Savage Lovecast by Dan Savage

May 12, 2026 · 56 min · Episode 1018

About this episode

Dan Savage and comedian Jackie Kashian discuss relationship dynamics, age gaps, and provide advice for aspiring stand-up comedians.

When he was a young homo, he was expected to rim his tops. Kids today want the top to rim the bottom! What gives? A straight man and his girlfriend keep taking "breaks" from the relationship, at her behest. They always end up getting back together, but each time he thinks it's the end. Should he continue to tolerate this exhausting cycle? Our guest is the thoroughly delightful Midwestern comedian Jackie Kashian. She and Dan tackle a question from a man who wants to hit on a woman 30 years his junior at the Passover seder. They talk about age gap relationships in general, on sleeping with many people whilst blotto drunk, and they dish out some actionable advice on how to succeed as a stand-up comedian. A little is on the Micro, and the whole thing is on the Magnum. And, a very female presenting non-binary person has the hots for gay bears. Are any of them bisexual enough to want to date this person? Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Get 20% off your first order by visiting…

People in this episode

Host: Dan Savage

Guest: Jackie Kashian

Topics covered

  • age gap relationships
  • comedy advice
  • relationship dynamics
  • sexual wellness
  • dating
  • LGBTQ+ issues

Keywords

  • relationship advice
  • comedy
  • LGBTQ+ dating
  • sexual wellness
  • age gap
  • stand-up comedy
  • intimacy

Sponsors

Foria, VB Health, Feeld

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