Q&A: How can I get my toddler to brush their teeth without a power struggle?

Q&A: How can I get my toddler to brush their teeth without a power struggle?

July 16, 2026 · 24 min · Episode 429

About this episode

This episode addresses how to help toddlers brush their teeth without power struggles by focusing on cooperation and understanding their needs.

Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Emily Upshur and I talk about... Why trying harder often makes tooth brushing harder, and what to focus on instead. The surprising reason lowering your expectations in the short term can actually lead to better long-term habits. How to tell whether your child is resisting because of autonomy, sensory sensitivities, or something else entirely. Why treating tooth brushing like learning a brand-new skill, no matter your child's age, can completely change your approach. Simple ways to use play, exposure, and curiosity to help your child feel more comfortable with brushing. Small changes to your routine that can dramatically reduce bedtime power struggles. Creative ideas to make tooth brushing feel less threatening and more engaging, even for children who have fought it every step of the way. Whether your child refuses to open their mouth, insists on brushing independently, or runs away the moment the toothbrush comes out, this episode will help you move away from daily battles and toward a calmer, more connected approach that builds cooperation over time. REFERENCES AND RELATED RESOURCES: 💥 Tired of…

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Host: Dr. Sarah Bren

Guest: Dr. Emily Upshur

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