Q&A: How do I support my child with language delays during playdates?

About this episode

This episode discusses how to support children with language delays during playdates, focusing on communication strategies and parental involvement.

Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg and I talk about how to support a child who is struggling to communicate with their peers. Together we explore: - The difference between scaffolding and helicopter parenting, and how to find the right balance. - How your goals for a playdate can shape how much you step in. - The role of context, including the child your kid is playing with and how familiar they are with each other. - What scaffolding can actually look like in the moment, beyond just helping with words. - How narrating and "sportscasting" interactions can support both kids without taking over. - How to tune into your child's cues to determine whether something is truly a problem. - The trap of overthinking and how to recognize when things might actually be going just fine. This episode will help you feel more confident in knowing when to step in, when to step back, and how to support your child's social and communication skills in a way that builds both competence and connection. REFERENCES AND RELATED RESOURCES: 👉 Want extra support in your parenting journey? Upshur Bren Psychology Group offers therapy and coaching…

People in this episode

Host: Dr. Sarah Bren

Guest: Dr. Rebecca Hershberg

Topics covered

• language delays
• playdates
• parenting support
• communication skills
• scaffolding
• child development

Keywords

• language delays
• playdates
• parenting
• communication
• scaffolding
• social skills
• child development

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Upshur Bren Psychology Group

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