What 10,000+ Dating Questions Have Taught Me About Modern Relationships

What 10,000+ Dating Questions Have Taught Me About Modern Relationships

July 2, 2026 · 45 min · Episode 623

About this episode

Ilana Dunn discusses insights from over 10,000 dating questions, focusing on common anxieties and the search for clarity in modern relationships.

After reading 10,000+ dating and relationship questions, I've noticed that most people are asking the same thing in different ways: "How do I know I'm making the right choice?" In this solo episode, I'm breaking down four listener questions about anxiety, intuition, dating with intention, relationship doubts, and the pressure to know if someone is "the one." We talk about why modern dating feels so overwhelming, how social media has distorted our expectations around certainty and chemistry, and the biggest lesson I've learned from years of helping people navigate relationships: clarity comes from experience, not endless analysis. ALL links here (submit a Q, pitch yourself to the pod, dating coaching & more) Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/seeingotherpeople #rulapod  Stock up on the best elevated essentials + get free shipping & 365 day returns at Quince.com/seeingotherpeople Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE If your glasses are overdue for a refresh, now is the time. Go to…

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