REALITY CHECK: why you still don't have the love you want

About this episode

This episode discusses the reasons behind not finding love and how to shift your mindset towards healthier relationships.

if you’re constantly overthinking texts, stuck in situationships, comparing yourself to girls in relationships, or feeling like everyone else finds love so easily except you...this reality check is for you ❤️ in today's video, we’re talking about self concept, attachment styles, manifestation, boundaries, confidence, detachment, and the small daily choices that either move you closer to healthy love or keep you stuck in the same toxic cycle. if you’re tired of settling, obsessing over unavailable people, or feeling like you always have to earn love, this video is for you. because the healthy, secure relationship you want starts with becoming the version of you who truly believes she deserves it ✨ 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL PODCAST INSTAGRAM LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder ! Epidemic Sound

People in this episode

Host: Tam Kaur

Topics covered

• self concept
• attachment styles
• manifestation
• boundaries
• confidence
• detachment
• healthy relationships

Keywords

• love
• relationships
• self improvement
• toxic cycle
• confidence
• manifestation
• attachment styles

Sponsors

Abbott Lyon

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Abbott Lyon

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